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I spent a lot of time in the past month being distant from both this blog and my niche site, as I needed time to reflect and to decide on my direction for the upcoming year (2021). While I still haven’t exactly figured this out, I put some of the extra time on my hands into something productive – decluttering.

While my decluttering process is far from over (as I used to spend a lot of money on random stupid things), I estimate that I’ve already thrown away over $10,000 worth of stuff.

More than $10,000 Down the Drain

So, what did I toss? My biggest culprits are the following:

  • Lots of books and DVDs;
  • TONNES of movie and anime memorabilia; and
  • Many clothing items, such as shirts, jeans, dresses, shoes, bags and more.
Stack of Jeans

A stack of jeans that I donated just last week. There’s more where this came from.

My Insane Spending Habits

When I was in my teenage years, I used to shop for clothes a lot. I would spend $200 each time I went out shopping, and that could be multiple times a month. I also regularly frequented movie and anime shops, and would buy up a storm during each school holiday (in March, June, September, December). I could have spent easily $300 each time.

Anime Collection

A small part of my anime collection. Keyword: Small.

In my early 20s, I started collecting books, and then DVDs. Thankfully, I discovered Carousell (a platform in Singapore for buying and selling preowned items) around this time, and limited my collection to pre-owned books and DVDs. While the financial damage wasn’t as bad, my collecting habits still weren’t exactly cheap.

DVD Collection

A small part of my DVD collection. My entire collection consists of 300-400 titles.

Book Collection on Bookshelf

A small part of my book collection. Why do I have multiple copies of the Game of Thrones series? (Face palm)

What was I thinking? I don’t know either. Nevertheless, here are 3 lessons that I learnt.

1. Little things add up.

While I never found myself being attracted to big ticket items (such as expensive watches, bags, or even cars), I’ve always had a compulsive urge to collect things.

The things I collected were never too expensive. But they added up over the years.

A dress might only set me back $50 today, but an entire wardrobe over the years would cost me thousands.

An anime figurine might only cost me $30 today, but an entire collection might amount to $1,000.

A single DVD might only be $5 today, but an entire collection might be $2,000. (Oh, I have about 400 DVDs titles right now).

2. It’s so much harder to sell than to buy.

I’m not sure whether anyone else in Singapore has had a similar experience, but it’s impossible to sell things on Carousell for a good price; people are always constantly haggling. I previously posted a brand new $500 Coach bag online for just $120, and I still had people trying to negotiate it down to $100 or less.

In addition, a lot of time is needed to post the items online, take pictures, write a description, liaise with the buyer, and then meet up with the buyer.

As such, apart from more expensive items that can sell for $50 or more, I rather donate or throw away than to sell on Carousell.

It took me just 10 minutes to see and buy a $500 bag in the past, but hours to sell it for just $100 afterwards.

3. I never even took the time to appreciate most of what I bought.

I used to (and sometimes I still do) buy stuff thinking that I would eventually get around to using it, but I never did. I’ve had so many clothing items going unused, books never being read, DVDs that I never watched (I mean who watches DVDs anymore, right?). I didn’t even display the anime and movie merchandise that I bought.

I never realised it before, but I was just after the dopamine hit that’s associated with buying something new, not because I actually needed any of the stuff that I bought.

As of now, I no longer buy any books, DVDs, clothes, or even my beloved anime/movie merchandise. It makes me feel wasteful to have so many things that I don’t need.

However, I have been picking up A LOT of outdoor gear to review for my niche site and my YouTube channel (if I ever get around to filming). But it’s not being wasteful if I’m actually using it to start a small online business, right? *Trying to convince myself I’m not still being a compulsive hoarder*

Right. We’ll see where this goes.

Have you been decluttering recently? Is there anything else that you’ve learnt?

As always, thank you for reading and supporting this blog.

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Is it possible to eat out in Singapore for just $1?

With a few awesome money hacks, it is entirely possible.

Today, I’ll be sharing with you my favourite low-effort money hack for cheap eats in Singapore.

All you need is a credit card, and to download the Shopee app on your iPhone or Android phone. It’s also possible to use the desktop version of Shopee as well, though I prefer the mobile version.

$1 Food Deals by Shopee

Shopee regularly runs $1 food deals during their flash sales. These flash sales are usually held at 8am, 12pm, 6pm, 8pm and 12pm, though they do have other timings such as 7pm. 

If you happen to open the app at these timings, do check out their flash sales, and click on their “Food & Beverage” flash sale section. This will take you to all the top rated flash sales; usually, the $1 food deals will be right at the top. 

Here’s what it looks like:

Shopee Flash Deals for $1

While Shopee doesn’t have $1 food deals everyday, you might get lucky while checking the app.

Alternatively, you could find out when Shopee’s “Dining and Services Day” is. As you can see from the screenshot below, the next upcoming one is on 9 November. On these “Dining and Services Day”, in my personal opinion, $1 food sales are super common, and I’ve scored quite a few things on these days.

You can also look out for $1 food sales on popular shopping days, such as 10.10, 11.11, Black Friday, and more. 

11.11 Sales on Shopee

My $1 Food Sales Experience

Though I don’t always check Shopee for sales, I’ve personally scored quite a few awesome $1 deals this year. That’s why Shopee is my favourite low-effort food hack. It takes only about 5 seconds to check, and if there is a deal, it takes only another 10 seconds to make payment. Super fast, clean and easy. 

Jollibean Soy Bean and Pancakes for $1

$1 deal from Jollibean, which includes their famous soy milk and pancakes. Not bad for a few breakfasts or light lunches. I personally find their pancakes a little pricey if I have to pay full price, but their $1 deal was an absolute steal.

Jollibean Beancurd for $1

In addition to pancakes, I also managed to score $1 beancurd/soy pudding from Jollibean. I absolutely loved these puddings because they reminded me of Lao Ban beancurd. An absolute steal, and highly recommended even at full price. 

Sushi Deli Bento for $1

Here’s a $1 bento that I got from Sushi Deli, which is a concept branch opened by Jollibean. There’s plenty of vegetables, delicious fried chicken and Japanese rice.

Chewy Junior Donuts 3 for $1

Apologetically, this is a god-awful picture, because I was too hungry to put in any effort to take pictures at all. These are cream puffs from Chewy Junior; I got a set of 3 for just $1. Absolutely delightful. I went back for more even without the $1 deal.

LiHo Tea for $1

Here’s one of my girlfriend’s favourite deals – $1 Earl Grey Milk Tea from LiHo. While I usually never pay for drinks, this $1 flash deal is super worth it. I still have 3 more of these to redeem, and I usually stock up as many as I can during all of Shopee’s flash deals. 

Bubble Tea at Chun Yang

Chun Yang at Jewel Changi Airport was running a $1 promotion on their milk tea as well. My girlfriend didn’t like this though, so I didn’t buy more. But for $1, it’s definitely worth a shot.

Sashimi plates

One of my absolute favourite deals – $1 for 8 sashimi slices at Sakae Sushi. This picture shows 6 plates of 4 sashimi slices (24 in total), which set me back $3. An incredible steal. I’d love to stock up more on these, but they don’t have many outlets to redeem these. These were redeemed at Parkway Parade. 

Chulove Cafe $1 Churros

Another awful picture because I was too lazy to position the food before snapping the photo. Here’s a bowl of chocolate-covered churros, topped with ice cream and a can of coke. All for $1, at Chulove Cafe at VivoCity. 

Conclusion

The above shows only some of the $1 food deals I managed to score this year. I didn’t feature everything that I scored at $1, though I might do that in a separate post.

Hopefully the Shopee hack works for you if you’re looking to eat out on a very tight budget. 

As always, thank you for reading and supporting the blog. 

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There’s always something magical about visiting Changi Airport.

Travelling (especially to Japan) has always been my reward for surviving a dreary year of office work. And the prelude to every amazing overseas adventure is always seeing that iconic control tower in the distance, while the taxi that I’m in swiftly makes its way to the airport.

Unfortunately, there’ll be no amazing trips or stories to write home about for this year, because of the COVID pandemic.

But all things considered, I’m grateful for being largely unscathed by the pandemic. Heck, if not going to Japan (or any travelling, for that matter) this year is one of the worst COVID consequences for me, then I’m privileged beyond doubt.

That being said, why not just visit Changi Airport for fun? After all, Jewel has some of the most beautiful urban design I’ve ever seen in my life (and it better be, considering that it cost S$1.7 billion to build).

So, that’s exactly what I did (after pestering my girlfriend to accompany me).

And here’s what we did.

A Michelin-Starred Lunch

We arrive at Jewel, ready to explore. But first, lunch.

Our choice of cuisine should come as no surprise – Japanese ramen.

There’s this lovely ramen place called Tsuta, and they pride themselves on being the world’s first Michelin-starred ramen.

The décor is minimalistic, the menu is simple, the food is undoubtedly delicious, and the price is shockingly inexpensive.

I have a basic Tonkotsu ramen, $12. I also get greedy and order an additional egg, $1.40.

Tonkotsu Ramen at Tsuta

My bowl of Tonkotsu ramen at Tsuta.

My girlfriend has a Mala ramen, $13. Mala is a Chinese seasoning that’s spicy and numbing, and is one of the spices my girlfriend loves the most. We’ve never seen it in a ramen before, and it could go so wrong, but we decide to just try it anyway.

Mala ramen at Tsuta

My girlfriend’s bowl of Mala ramen at Tsuta.

Surprisingly, it is absolutely scrumptious. The Mala isn’t too overpowering (much unlike traditional Mala hotpot dishes), but there is still enough flavour for it to be delightful. I say they’ve struck the perfect balance of spice and flavour. If you enjoy Mala flavours, this dish is highly recommended.

The total bill comes up to $31.10, including a 10% service charge and a 7% goods and services tax.

At the cashier, I pull out a $25 voucher code (that I paid $15 for) from Chope, which the restaurant happily accepts. This brings my total cost down to $21.10.

An absolute steal for a Michelin-starred meal.

I live by my motto, and it has yet to let me down – you don’t need a lot of money to enjoy a good life. Not even in an expensive city like Singapore.

Tsuta Vouchers on Chope

If you’re looking to try Tsuta, we highly recommend it. The Tonkotsu and Mala ramen dishes were incredible, though their Shoyu and Miso ramen dishes pretty much fell flat (we don’t recommend these).

There’s currently a $25 voucher on Chope that you can buy for $20, which gives you a solid $5 off. Not sure how long it’ll last though.

(Not an affiliate link, just recommending a really awesome restaurant.)

Window Shopping

My girlfriend and I want to keep our spending to a minimum, so we decide to go window shopping.

We visit lots of different stores, like Muji and Tokyu Hands. Thankfully, these places are mostly empty.

An empty Muji store at Jewel Changi Airport

An empty Muji store in Jewel Changi Airport.

We also take our time to admire a massive collection of BearBricks, though we wonder how people fork out thousands of dollars for giant plastic bears.

BearBrick Collection

A massive collection of mid-sized BearBricks.

Our favourite store is the Pokémon store. After holding an adorable Clefairy stuffed toy for a good 15 minutes while we walk around the store, my girlfriend looks at me and asks, “Should I get this?”

For a moment there, I’m undecided. It’s super cute, and would make an excellent addition to our collection of Pokémon stuffed toys. But it’s also $20. That’s as much as our lunch. And we’re also supposed to be decluttering.

Eventually, I convince her to put it down by telling her that I’d pick up one for her the next time I’m in Japan. It’s a lot cheaper there, and I always enjoy picking up souvenirs for her.

Clefairy Sitting Cuties Toy

An adorable Clefairy from the Sitting Cuties collection.

In Japan, Pokémon stores are everywhere. Whenever I’m in Japan, I’d step into a Pokémon store at least every other day, because I’m accompanying my brothers who love playing the Pokémon arcade game.

It’s extremely nostalgic to be back inside a Pokémon store, and I find myself already thinking about my next trip to Japan.

More Food Deals

All the roaming around start to make us thirsty, and we stop for some bubble tea. Earlier, I had picked up a $1 deal from a new bubble tea place called Chun Yang, and it happens to be situated at Jewel Changi Airport. Perfect timing.

Bubble Tea at Chun Yang

Bubble tea from Chun Yang.

The voucher redemption process (from Chope) goes smoothly, and the bubble tea is in our hands within minutes. There’s a smooth milky taste to it, and I enjoy every refreshing mouthful. My girlfriend isn’t that big a fan of it though, she thinks that there’s more milk than tea.

Definitely still worth a try though. It costs about $4 for a cup when you get it through Chope. I got mine for just $1 because well, I’m a huge fan of flash deals.

After, I pick up 2 boxes of durian puffs from Four Seasons Durians, a gift for my girlfriend and her mom. Each box had 24, which means that there were 48 durian puffs in total.

Durian puffs from Four Seasons Durian

Two boxes of durian puffs from Four Seasons Durian.

The cost? Just $9. This deal I got through Shopee during their Dining and Services Promotion Day. You can still find a variation of this promotion at this link here.

I don’t expect much from it (as I’m not a huge fan of durian), but find myself pleasantly surprised by the creaminess and the lightness of the durian flavour.

Before we leave, we admire the humongous 40-meter rain vortex. It was a beautiful sight, which solidifies my belief that Jewel Changi Airport is one of the most incredible urban structures I’d ever seen in my life.

Rain Vortex at Jewel Changi Airport

Rain vortex at Jewel Changi Airport.

As we leave, I watch the iconic Changi Airport control tower fade in the distance, my heart aching a little, yearning for another trip, missing Japan.

Well, maybe next year.

I’ll be back again, Changi Airport.

 

How Much Did I Spend?

  • Lunch at Tsuta: $21.10 (for both my girlfriend and I)
  • Window Shopping: Free
  • Bubble Tea at Chun Yang: $1
  • Durian Puffs Gift from Four Seasons Durian: $9
  • Admiring Jewel: Free

Total: $31.10

Not a lot of money for a Michelin-starred lunch (for 2 people), bubble tea, a gift, and a full day of fun.

What do you think of Jewel Changi Airport?

As always, thank you for reading and supporting this blog.

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I was fortunate to have discovered the financial independence and early retirement community back in 2017, when I was just 24 years old.

While I was extremely sceptical at first, and it took a few years of mindset and financial adjustment, I believe that my finances are now on track for a comfortable and early retirement.

However, just a few short years ago, my finances were nothing like they are now, especially regarding my expenses.

I spent money like it grew on trees, and I bought a lot of things that I didn’t need, didn’t use, or simply because I felt a compulsive need to spend it.

Side Note: I was inspired to write this post when I was cleaning my room and dumping away tonnes of old bank statements and receipts. It was fun to look at how much I used to spend, and what I spent on.

Here’s a little peek as to what my expenses were like.

2014

In 2014, I was still in university. I didn’t work, and my parents gave me an allowance of $600 a month. That’s a lot for a ‘broke’ university student.

Each month, I blew my entire allowance on restaurants, movies and online shopping.

On a random month, like September 2014, I spent:

  • $31 on a Ramen restaurant (Ramen Play)
  • $50 on Groupon (I don’t even remember what I bought)
  • $75 online shopping (Urban Tool Haus, probably a gift for my brother)
  • $27.50 movie tickets (Cathay movie tickets, at full price!)
  • And more on Groupon, restaurants and online shopping.
September 2014 Expenses

2015

In 2015, before things got rough with my parents, my spending was even more out of control. For example, in February 2015, I spent:

  • $54 in restaurants (Jack’s Place)
  • $47 at a bar (Barossa Bar)
  • $40 on attraction tickets (Alive Museum, which I didn’t even go to in the end)
  • $55 on coffee (Dome Coffee)
  • $194 on a hotel room (booked from Expedia)

Amongst other smaller items.

I even vividly remember telling my girlfriend that we should book staycations every month as a way to “reward” ourselves for working so hard. Considering that each of our staycations typically cost $200 to $300, that could have easily added up. We didn’t end up going through with it because shit hit the roof with my parents this year (2015).

Expenses February 2015 (1)
Expenses February 2015 (2)

In 2015, I also took a lot of cab rides, not just every week, but multiple times a week. Here’s a snippet of information from my phone app for March 2015:

March 2015 Cab Expenses

2016

After things got rough with my parents in 2015, I stopped spending as much money. Expensive things like café hopping, coffee and staycations were no longer things I could afford.

However, I still realised that I had a compulsive urge to spend money and collect things, as seen from my collections of merchandise, books and DVDs.

  • March 2016: Collecting lots of anime figurines and merchandise.
  • September 2016: Collecting books.
  • December 2016: Collecting DVDs.

I suspect it was my unhappiness in life that compelled me to collect things, because of the dopamine rush when you get something new. What I was collecting was cheap (like $2 to $3 for a DVD), but I enjoyed the rush the same.

2016-Expenses-(1)
2016-Expenses-(2)

2017

In 2017, I discovered the FIRE community and blogging. This year, I made even more improvements to my spending. The entire year, I spent just $73 on collecting books, and $208 on other collectibles (like merchandise, cards and stuffed toys).

I did have a bunch of other discretionary spend (like a drum set, and blogging-related expenses), but I would think that’s a lot less compulsive and a lot more meaningful.

 

2018

I started a Kindle book collection in 2018, because I was so bored at work. I spent $69 on a bunch of random books that I still haven’t read. I brought my merchandise collection spending down to $6.50.

2019

I still continued buying Kindle books and toys, but spent only $54 the entire year. This was the year that I discovered online shopping, through Shopee, and started buying lots of necessities and a bunch of random shopping items through this.

 

2020

This year, I’m proud to announce that my spending is much more controlled. Yes, I still enjoy online shopping on Shopee (where I’ve been buying alcohol, snacks and some of my necessities), but so far my compulsive collecting (of merchandise, books and DVDs) has stopped completely.

I suspect it’s because 2020 has been a year where I do more of what I want (writing) and less of what other people expect me to do (work a corporate job). Things have been more meaningful and productive for me, and I’m a lot happier this year.

 

Reflections

Looking at my expenses, I realised I have never been immune to shopping. I do enjoy it very much, and I love my dopamine rush as much as the next person.

However, there’s a stark difference in my spending habits now, as compared to the past. Before FIRE, I just spent money like it grew on trees, like it didn’t mean anything. After FIRE, I toned it down a lot, but still spent a little to fill a void in my life (whenever I was unhappy at home, or unhappy at work).

Going forward, I hope to stop all unnecessary compulsive collecting and spending. I’m looking to move to a much more minimalist lifestyle, where I own fewer material possessions, and spend instead on experiences (like building websites, travelling the world, and learning new skills like Japanese and drums).

I see a trend since 2014 where my spending gets more mindful and controlled each year. I know I will eventually slip up (and I’ve almost done so a few times this year), but I’ll just reflect and move forward and focus on improving myself.

What were your expenses like before FIRE?

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Side Note: Wrote this little frugal money diaries entry because I’ve been loving my mornings (the first time in a very long time), and I’m hoping to consistently improve on my morning routines from now on. It’ll be nice to look back in 5 years to see how far I have come.

7.00 a.m.

The shrill default iPhone alarm goes off, disrupting a wonderful rest that I had been enjoying (a rare occurrence for me).

I groggily fumble around for my iPhone on my night table, finally getting a hold of it. I snooze the alarm and go back under the warm covers of my bed.

This is too comfortable” are the last thoughts in my mind before I drift off again.

7.03 a.m.

My next alarm goes off.

I turn off the alarm with ease this time, since my phone is now right next time.

7.05 a.m.

Another alarm disturbs my rest.

After being woken up a number of times, my body realises that it’s not getting anymore sleep for today, and my brain slowly gets up. I force myself to open my eyes while fiddling with my phone.

I check the notifications that I received throughout the night, before doing a little online shopping. There are a few items that I’ve been meaning to purchase, and I check the listings everyday to see if I could be lucky enough to snag them at a cheaper price.

Nothing like a quick dopamine fix in the early morning to wake you up.

7.15 a.m.

I’m still in bed. I know I should get out of bed as soon as I wake up, but the flesh is weak though the spirit is willing.

Fortunately (or unfortunately, however you see it), I had deliberately left my window shade open the night before. Every morning at 7.15 a.m., the sun rises at such an angle that its blinding rays will shine directly on my pillow, erasing any possibility of sleeping in.

Today, it seems particularly scorching, and it becomes too hot and too bright, way too fast.

At this point, getting out of bed becomes infinitely more comfortable than sleeping in and getting sun-burnt.

7.20 a.m.

I keep 2 litres of water near my bed every night, and I greedily gulp down 2 cups of water. I start feeling a little less groggy, and my energy levels increase a little.

After, I use the toilet, brush my teeth and get changed into my workout attire.

It’s something that I lay out the night before, so I can just grab it without having too make too many decisions early in the morning. I wear the same thing everyday, just a simple tank top, and a comfortable pair of shorts.

7.35 a.m.

It’s time to start my short high-intensity interval training workout.

I’m not really feeling it today, but I firmly remind myself that the guilt of not working out today will plague me far longer than the temporary pain of a 15 to 20-minute workout.

It usually works wonders.

I regularly do 5 sets of 5 30-second exercises each morning by following one of Jillian Michaels’ workout videos. Today is no different.

Like always, I still feel sleepy and groggy during the first 2-3 sets, but by the second half of the exercise, I feel a little better.

At the end of it, I do a little light stretching.

Cost = $0 (My workout video is something I’ve had for years, and never felt the need to change or buy a new one.)

8.00 a.m.

Exercising is usually the most difficult part of my morning routine, because it can be difficult to get the body moving when you first wake up.

However, now that it’s done, I get to treat myself to some soothing jazz music.

After scrolling to the YouTube app on my iPhone, I click the first video on my recommended list. It’s always the same video everyday, because YouTube (or Google) can read me like a book.

Nothing like a great morning with some Cozy Morning Lo-Fi Jazz mixes.

This music is incredible. I’ve been listening to the same tunes every morning for months now, and I always find myself looking forward to it. That’s when you know you’ve found something real.

Cost = $0 (Just have to spend a few seconds watching some ads.)

8.05 a.m.

To rinse of all the workout sweat, I take a shower. A cold shower.

I find that though I hate the cold, it’s great for waking me up in the morning. It’s an electrifying shock to the body that I dislike, but find that it’s a necessary evil.

As the first spray of ice-cold water (I exaggerate, but that’s what it feels like) hits my body, I find myself thinking the same thing that I do every morning.

Thank God I don’t live in a country that has winter.

Thankfully, the human body doesn’t take too long to get accustomed to colder or warmer temperatures. 1 minute into my cold shower, I find that my body no longer feels tensed up and ready to escape the cold.

I enjoy the rest of my shower with those smooth Cozy Morning jazz tunes playing in the background.

8.15 a.m.

Morning exercise, done. Cold shower, done.

My mouth starts salivating and I realise that it’s time for breakfast.

I eat and drink the same thing almost every morning – last night’s leftovers (there are always leftovers) for breakfast, with some delicious milk tea (just a third of a bottle to limit caffeine-intake).

I had stopped drinking caffeine for 2 and a half years, from beginning 2018 to the middle of 2020. I’m sensitive to caffeine and found myself having a lot of sleeping difficulties earlier. But I’ve found that a little caffeine can really help to perk me up in the morning.

So, I give myself a little allowance to drink some in the morning, and that becomes my only cup of the day. Only tea, no coffee.

Milk Tea

And frankly, it’s absolutely delicious, and has become one of the highlights of my mornings.

Cost = About $2 (for both the leftovers and a little milk tea, about a third of a bottle)

8.30 a.m.

With my stomach sated, my muscles all stretched out, and my mind more alert, I sip on my milk tea while enjoying a beautiful view of the highway. It’s not much, and I get to see only cars driving by, but at least it’s still beautiful with all the greenery.

Another thing I love about Singapore – the abundant greenery. It’s everywhere.

My mind wanders.

Today, I’m thinking about how different my 2020 has been from my 2019.

2019 was a year of stress, overwork, unhappiness and discontent. I worked easily 70 (maybe even 80) hours a week (which included all my commutes), on a full-time job that I hated, and tutoring gigs that bored me so. During any free time that I had, I found myself not wanting to get out of bed, because I was already dreading the time that I had to go back to work or to go tutoring. Some nights I stayed up till 2 or 3 a.m., only to find myself waking up at 10 or 11 a.m., with half my day gone.

Fort Canning Park

Fort Canning Park with lots of greenery.

2020, on the other hand, has been a year of more passion projects, more writing, and less work.

When you include all the writing that I do each week, plus my part-time job and tutoring, I would say that I still work at least 60 hours a week. Except this time, I get to work more on writing, and less on mundane administrative office tasks. And no commuting – oh yes, that’s the worst.

Speaking of work, don’t you have some writing to do?”, I gently remind myself.

Right. Work. Writing. Better get to it!” I sit down, turn on my laptop, and start typing.

In many ways, 2020 hasn’t been so different from 2019. I still work a lot, trying to become a better person than I was yesterday.

Only this time, I actually enjoy a lot of what I do.

And that makes all the difference in the world.

TL;DR

My Morning Routine in a Nutshell

  • 0700: Wake Up
  • 0715: Get out of bed
  • 0720: Drink water, brush teeth and get changed
  • 0735: Exercise and stretch
  • 0800: Turn on jazz music
  • 0805: Cold shower
  • 0815: Breakfast and tea
  • 0830: Relax a little before starting work

How Much Do I Spend Each Morning?

  • Working out at home: $0
  • Jazz music on YouTube: $0
  • Breakfast and tea at home: $2
  • Staring at scenery and being grateful for my life this year: $0
  • Total: $2

5 Inexpensive Things that Make a Wonderful Morning Routine

  • A little light exercise (15-20 minutes)
  • The accomplishment after a short cold shower
  • Relaxing, morning jazz music
  • A simple breakfast
  • An appreciation for the beauty of an early morning

What’s your morning routine like?

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Have you ever wondered what a day in the life of a frugal person living in Singapore looks like? Probably not. But I’ll just show you what it’s like anyway, with this frugal money diary series.

I decided to start writing money diaries to document memorable moments of my life. It’ll be fun to look back 5 years from now and see how I spent my money.

The events of the following money diary took place sometime in September 2019; I just didn’t write it until June 2020.

And one last thing – All currency stated in this post is in Singapore dollars (S$).

Thanks for reading!

Starting the Day with Breakfast

My alarm goes off at 7AM, just like it would any other work day of the year. After snoozing for 15 minutes (a bad habit of mine), I reluctantly pry myself out of my very comfortable bed, already dreading the work day ahead.

Work has been exhausting. Office politics is widespread, my two bosses constantly at heads with each other. This puts me in an unfortunate position – right at the centre of it all. I’m always reminding myself to keep an extremely low profile, by just doing what I have to do, and heading home after.

But before dealing with all of that, I treat myself to one of my favourite breakfasts – 2 sunny-side up eggs. It usually keeps me full until lunch.

In Singapore, you can buy a pack of 30 eggs for $5.45 at a local supermarket. That’s $0.18 per egg. My breakfast of 2 eggs? $0.36.

After, I make my way down to the office, where I’ll spend the next 8 hours pushing paper and dealing with office politics. This is the worst part of my day – spending my morning squashed between hordes of people all commuting to the central business district, all the while fighting the dreaded anticipation of the upcoming work day.

Thankfully, Singapore’s public transportation system is fairly efficient and insanely cheap. It costs me just $0.93 to get to my workplace.

The sight that I see when I get there is one that I see every day, and it’s wearing me down slowly.

My Office Desk

My first desk in the office before I moved departments.

The little bit of excitement taking me through the day is that I get to have lunch with one of my best friends, and dinner with another friend I hadn’t seen in years.

But that costs money”, the extremely frugal voice at the back of my head reminds me, “Remember not to spend too much!” The guilt of spending money starts to overwhelm me, before I’m able to put things in perspective.

Stop it”, I hiss back, trying to shut the voice out. I already have a sizable amount of savings from 5 years of part-time work and 3 years of full-time work. It doesn’t make sense for me to be this distraught over having lunch and dinner out.

During the first half (4 hours) of my work day, I manage to get through without getting caught in the crossfire.

With a little bit of spare time on my hands, I start brainstorming ways to be frugal for lunch, eventually coming up with a few ideas.

Enjoying a Mid-Day Lunch Break

Armed with a $2.50 can of tuna (I keep a few of these in my desk drawer at all times, just in case), a packet of milo (taken from the free company pantry), and a cup of yoghurt (also taken from the free pantry), I pack everything up into a small brown paper bag, and then head down to meet my best friend.

She’s getting married soon, and wants to save money as well. We settle on a cheap government-subsidised cafeteria, where food options range from $2 to $5.

Milo and Yoghurt

Free food and drinks from the office pantry.

Can of Tuna

Tuna from the supermarket, costs $2.50.

For just $2, you could get a bowl of mee soto, or a bowl of mee goreng, or a small breakfast platter (with bread, eggs, and ham). I’ve eaten all of this before, and they’re not fantastic. But hey, I can’t expect too much for just $2, which is already a steal.

I still prefer canned tuna though, so I go with that.

My best friend orders a bowl of yong tau foo, a mix of noodles, tofu, and a little meat. I think it comes up to $4.

She gets a drink as well. $0.50.

We tuck into our food. She talks about the upcoming wedding and the stresses that she’s facing, while I listen and try to comfort her, strangely relieved that I won’t be getting married myself (in Singapore, homosexuality is still criminalised).

For dessert, I’m conflicted as to whether I should get a goreng pisang (a fried banana; it’s really good) for $1. It’s not that it’s expensive, but I’ve been trying to eat healthily. I decided not to get it, saving a little bit of both my financial wealth and physical health. I feel happy about that decision, though my stomach curses me for it.

Altogether, my lunch costs just $2.50.

And now, it’s back to work.

Cheap Food

This is one of the cheap food dishes in the government-subsidised cafeteria. There’s grilled chicken, coleslaw, baked beans, mashed potatoes and garlic bread – all for the affordable price of $4.50.

Ending the Night with a Free Dinner

The rest of my workday goes fairly smoothly. I pat myself on the back as I step out of the office, while enjoying the fresh air, a rare commodity when working an office job.

A day of completed work is another day of savings, and another day closer to early retirement”, I remind myself.

I’m excited to meet my friend, who I haven’t seen in years. To travel to where she is, I have two options.

  1. Take a 15-minute bus ride, for $0.93.
  2. Walk about 4 kilometres (about 2.5 miles) for an hour, which is free.

I choose the free option.

What sways my decision is that it is still early (I have an hour before meeting my friend), I love walking, and I need my doses of sunlight and exercise for the day. Walking for an hour seems like the obvious choice, and I walk those 4 kilometres.

Along the way, I try to decide what to get for dinner. I’ve made up my mind to treat my friend to dinner, so I want something not too cheap, yet wouldn’t break the bank at the same time.

Over the past year, my friend had been job-hopping from industry to industry. I think she went through 3 jobs in that short span of time, but never found satisfaction or fulfillment anywhere she went.

Eventually, she decided to quit her job to pursue entrepreneurship. She’s currently pursuing her passion of starting an online educational platform to teach young children.

Unfortunately, the money isn’t good. She’s currently making a grand total of well, zero dollars. Negative even, because she had been investing into her business venture without any return. That’s the price of entrepreneurship, and she was willing to pay it.

So she’s a starving entrepreneur, and I’m the one with a full-time job. It feels like my responsibility to treat her to something nice.

We both love Japanese, so I settle on Chirashi Dons (a Japanese rice bowl with cubed raw fish on top). They cost about $16 a pop, or $32 for 2. Luckily, I’m extremely familiar with promotions and cashback apps, and one of them was offering a cool 30% cashback. This brings the price per bowl down to $11.20, or $22.40 for 2 people. Not too bad.

Teppei Shopback Discount

As I near the Japanese restaurant, all ready to fork out money for delicious rice bowls, I receive a text message from my friend, “FREE FOOD. Hurry!

My eyes narrow, and questions start popping into my mind. After all, I was always taught that there’s no such thing as a free meal. I text her back.

What? Where? Why?

Her response is immediate. “The Incubator is giving out free food. RUN.

The Incubator is a co-working space at our university, of which we are both alumni. In a bid to help out starving entrepreneurs, the Incubator provides free hot desks, and apparently, free food as well.

I run.

Incubator

Here’s what the Incubator looked like (before they moved in 2020). The picture was sent to me by my friend.

By the time I get there, the food is 80% gone. But the remaining food still looks scrumptious; I start salivating. We fill our plates, grab free drinks, and head outdoors to sit on the lawn. There are a few people around, but not too many. There’s still sunlight, but it’s not too bright. Greenery is abundant, and it’s quite a beautiful sight to see.

We eat heartily while enjoying the fresh air. I had managed to score fried rice, tofu, fish, chicken, gravy and some fried food. Not bad for a free dinner.

As night settles in, my friend updates me on everything going on in her life – her passionate entrepreneurship ventures, her complicated love life, her exciting travels. I tell her about mine – a soul-sucking desk job, an unknown blog and a boring social life. Not terribly exciting.

I enjoy the catch-up session with my friend. She’s passionate, inspiring and self-motivated. My thoughts drift from time to time. Would I ever be able to quit my job too? Would I ever get a shot of earning money from a passion project?  

My mind races as I listen to my friend talk about entrepreneurship.

For a very long time, I had been afraid to quit my job to jump into things I love. The most I could work on passion projects was on the side. But my friend is different; she jumps in with both feet. She encourages me to quit my job and to work on whatever makes me happy, like writing for my blog. For a few moments, I actually feel like I could do what she’s doing. Maybe there’s some hope for my future after all.

3 hours goes by quickly, and soon, it’s time for us to part. I need to get home, shower, chill in bed, and prepare for the next day of work (groan).

We stop by a convenient store near the bus station. She picks up a bottle of Kirin beer for $2, and I get 2 milk teas for my brother at home. The bottles of milk tea are on offer, 2 for $2.

She tells me that she drinks almost every day. I ask why.

Stress, I guess.

Underneath all the passion and excitement of entrepreneurship, there lay stress and uncertainty. I could see it in her slightly-weary face, in her tired sighs. I just know that I would feel the same if there ever came a day where I was working for myself.

As she reaches for her wallet to make payment, I gently insist that I pay for it. We tussle for a little bit, but I manage to tap my card on the reader first. It’s the least I could do.

In those few hours with my friend, I had felt more empowered and inspired than I had been in the past 2-3 years of my stupid desk job.

$4, for 1 beer and 2 milk teas.

It’s already nearing 10.30pm, and while I wait for my bus, my friend heads back to the Incubator to get in more work. She tells me that she normally doesn’t leave the Incubator till the last train home, which is around midnight.

I remind her that health always comes first, and to find a good balance. She nods and we part ways.

After a $1.03 bus ride, I reach home at past 11pm. I end up sleeping way past midnight, thinking about my own life, future and career. I wonder what I’d be able to do with myself.

I eventually come to the conclusion that I’d hang out with my friend more, because her kind of positivity and optimism is so addicting, and frankly, quite necessary.

Maybe one day I’ll get to become an entrepreneur too”, I think to myself as I finally fall asleep.

 

How Much Did I Spend?

 

 Category  Amount Spent (S$)
 Breakfast  $0.36
 Transport  $0.93 + $1.03
 Lunch  $2.50
 Dinner  $0
 Gifts (Drinks)  $4
 Total  $8.82

 

Total cost for eating out and spending almost the entire day out: $8.82.

I could use more days like these.

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Moving out isn’t cheap, as there are many different categories of expenses that you need to cater and account for. As such, it may be that you can’t afford to move out.

But that doesn’t mean that you’re doomed to staying in your parents’ house forever. If you can’t afford to move out yet, the following 100 tips might help you eventually move out. These 100 tips will help you find a job for income, decrease expenses, save money, reduce debt, build credit, and make a plan.

And at the end of it, you will be able to move out. Let’s get into it.

 

8 Tips for Landing a Job

Landing a job is one of the most important things you can do for yourself before moving out.

This is because landlords usually want to see proof of income before renting anything to you. Proof of income indicates ability to pay the rent, which is the most important thing to landlords. In addition, you need your paycheck to pay for your monthly expenses such as rent, utilities, food and transportation.

What should you look for in a job? Ideally:

  • You’re a permanent employee;
  • The job pays a regular pay-check; and
  • You’re able to enjoy (or at least tolerate) the job.

 To land a job, you might want to:

1. Clean up your online image.

In preparation for your job hunt, it might be good to Google-search yourself and remove anything that might be perceived as negative (if possible). It’s also a good idea to clean up all your social media accounts by removing anything negative.

2. Update your resume.

To stand out to your prospective employer, make your resume job-specific. Highlight relevant skills and professional experience. Here’s a good guide to updating your resume.

3. Update your LinkedIn account.

Update your Linked-In account as well to reflect relevant, job-specific skills and professional experience. Here’s a great guide by Linked-In on updating your profile.

4. Write cover letters.

To make your job application stand out from the crowd, write a personalised, company-specific cover letter for each job that you apply to. Discuss your qualifications and how you are well-positioned to help each company thrive. Here’s a great guide on how to write a cover letter.

5. Apply for a job that offers free housing.

When searching for jobs, you could keep your options open and apply for jobs that offer free housing, including:

  • Joining the military;
  • Working on a cruise ship;
  • Becoming a park ranger; or
  • Becoming an au-pair.

If this seems like something you’re open to, here’s a list of 20 jobs that offer free lodging. If you can’t afford to move out, this is a great option for you to consider, as it takes care of the largest expenditure in your budget – housing.

Soldier walking on brown grass. Joining the military can allow you to move out with no money.

6. Alternatively, find a part-time or temporary job.

If full-time jobs are difficult to come by despite your incessant applying, then you can consider working part-time or temporary jobs in the meantime to save some money and to further pad your resume. 

7. Side hustle.

In addition to your full-time/part-time/temporary job, you might want to consider picking up a side hustle for extra cash. It’s typically lower-stress, more flexible, and can be as simple as driving for Uber or tutoring students in exchange for cash. For more information on lucrative side hustles, here are 50 great ideas

8. Don’t give up.

Securing a full-time job doesn’t come easy, and if you don’t have one yet, don’t give up. Be consistent in your efforts; send out as many as 5-10 applications per day. Keep track of what you’ve applied for, follow-up when you don’t hear back, and source for more opportunities through networking. Whatever it is, just don’t give up.

6 Tips for Raising Cash Quickly

If you can’t afford to move out, you could consider these easy ways of raising cash quickly. To do so:

9. Hold a garage sale.

If there’s anything you don’t need for daily living (the essentials), you can consider selling them in a garage sale. You can sell your old games, DVDs, CDs, etc.

You might not get a lot of money for your personal belongings, but every dollar earned in the garage sale is another dollar you can save to move out faster.

Selling vinyls at a garage sale.

10. Pawn anything of higher value.

While you might sell lower-value items in a garage sale, you can also consider pawning off higher-value items.

However, bear in mind that you won’t get what the items are actually worth. For example, if you’re pawning off a gold chain worth $1,000, you might get only $500, or less. In addition, this gold chain might be worth a lot of sentimental value, which you can’t put a price on. Think carefully about this before pawning anything off.

11. Recycle.

You can cash in on newspapers, aluminium cans, glass bottles, cardboard boxes, ink cartridges, and so much more. If you go around your neighbourhood, you might be able to find a lot of recyclable materials around. Check out this article for ways to make money recycling.

12. Take advantage of bank account bonuses.

Banks typically offer hundreds of dollars worth of sign-up bonuses when you open a new bank account with them. Note that there will be conditions that you have to fulfill though, such as depositing a sum of money into the bank account, or maintaining that bank account for a fixed period of time. 

Head to Google and type in “Best Bank Promotions or Bonuses”, and you’ll immediately be greeted with fantastic suggestions from NerdWallet or other personal finance sites.

13. Take advantage of credit card bonuses.

Similar to bank accounts, signing up for credit cards can be equally, if not more, lucrative. Some credit cards may require a minimum spend, others may not. Sign up for those that are most favourable for you.

14. Donate blood plasma.

To donate blood plasma, you need to be between 18 to 69 years old, and weigh at least 110 pounds (50 kilograms). You can make anywhere between $20 to $50 per donation, and up to $300 per month.

26 Tips for Minimising Expenses (While Living with Parents)

Living with parents is significantly cheaper than living alone, and if you can’t afford to move out yet, you should take advantage of this golden opportunity to save as much as possible.

You can do so by minimising your 3 biggest categories of expenses, which are housing, food, and transport. What are some tips for doing so?

15. Whatever you save on rent, deposit it into the bank.

When living with parents, you likely don’t pay rent or you pay rent at a huge discount to market. Whatever money you save on rent, don’t spend it on anything frivolous. Instead, put it into your savings account (which you hopefully opened and scored a nice sign-up bonus), or use it to pay down debt.

16. Stop eating out, at least temporarily.

With the average menu item costing at least $10 or more, and the average person spending at least $2,000 to $3,000 a year on eating out, it’s easy to see why stopping your eating out habit will lead to greater savings.

Eating Out

17. Get into the habit of spending no more than $150 a month on groceries.

Check out all these guides from other personal finance bloggers who spend, at the minimum, $1 per meal ($90 per month), to a maximum of just $140 per month.

A Purple Life: How I Spend $125 A Month on Groceries
My Money Wizard: How I Spend Less than $35 a Week on Groceries
His Her Money Guide: How We Eat on $4 a Day
Dan Miller on Budgets are Sexy: How to Eat on Less Than $1.00/meal

18. Consider eating on $60 a month (or $2 a day).

If you’re looking for some serious savings, you could eat for as little as $2 a day. However, note that extended periods on this diet might not be healthy for your body. Here’s what it’s like to eat on $2 a day:

MealIngredientsCost
Breakfast1 banana + 1 serving of oats$0.39
Snack1 banana$0.19
Lunch 1 serving of tortilla + 2 servings of peanut butter$0.61
Tea1 serving of sunflower seeds$0.14
Dinner4 servings of pasta + 1 serving of butter$0.58
Daily Total-$1.91

19. Meal plan.

To eat on anywhere between $60 to $150 a month, meal planning will be needed. This requires you to plan every single meal over a period of time, say a week, shop for only the necessary ingredients, and prepare your meals. Meal planning is great because it saves a lot of time and money. Here’s a great beginner’s guide to meal planning.

20. Cut out meat.

Substitute meat with vegetables or other staples, which are significantly cheaper. Check out the prices of vegetables compared to meat in Singapore:

Vegetables vs Meat Prices

21. Shop at farmers/wet markets instead of grocery stores.

22. Buy clearance items.

In other words, go to where the offers are. Many clearance items are near their expiry date, and can go from 30% to even 70% off their original price. 

23. Eat healthy.

Eliminate junk food and sweet drinks from your diet. In Singapore, a pack of potato chips can set you back $5, while the same weight in tomatoes will set you back $0.50. Similarly, a can of coke might cost you $1, while the same volume of water from the tap will set you back just $0.001. 

24. Drink water from the tap.

If your country supplies clean tap water, instead of buy bottles of water from the grocery store, consider boiling tap water and drinking it

25. Eat everything you buy.

Eliminate food waste by eating everything you buy. There are many recipes out there that make leftovers taste good, so that you never have to toss any food out (unless the food has gone bad, of course).

26. Eat for free.

Save even more money by eating for free. There are plenty of ways that you can eat for free, such as dumpster diving, sourcing food directly from wholesalers, growing your own food, mystery dining and so on. Check out this guide on this blog for more tips to eating for free.

Home-grown herbs in pots. Move out with no money by growing your own food.

27. Consider losing the car, if possible.

Owning a car is expensive. In addition to the upfront cost of the car, you’d also have to fork out money for auto insurance, maintenance, repairs, fuel, taxes and fees. If you don’t absolutely need to use a car to get to places, it might be a good idea to sell it off.

28. If you need a car, get a second-hand car.

Second-hand cars are much cheaper than new cars, since most of the depreciation has been paid for by the previous owner. A car loses 20% of its value within the first minute of buying it, and another 10% by the end of the first year. As such, buying a 1-year-old car will save you a whopping 30% off the market price.

29. Instead, rely on public transport.

Public transport is a lot cheaper than owning a car. You automatically get rid of certain expenses, like auto insurance, maintenance, repairs, fuels, and the works. In Singapore, each subway ride will set you back a maximum of $2. That’s a whole lot more affordable than buying a car.

30. Take advantage of travel discounts.

Common hacks to scoring travel discounts involve:

  • Travelling during off-peak periods;
  • Buying monthly public transport concession passes;
  • Using the best travel cashback credit cards; and
  • Taking advantage of money-saving apps.

Our guide on this blog on “Moving Out with No Money” goes through these travel discounts in much greater detail, so do check it out right here.

31. Calculate your fare.

There is usually more than 1 way of getting to your destination. If you’re looking to save a few cents on each trip, you could use a fare calculator to find the cheapest possible route. You can find a fare calculator for your city by Googling it.

32. Get around for free.

You can do so by cycling, walking, skateboarding, telecommuting, etc. Our guide on this blog on “Moving Out with No Money” goes more in depth into scoring free transport, so do check it out right here.

You might find it interesting that even wealthy people like Mr Money Mustache, one of the faces of the early retirement movement, gets around on a bicycle, because it’s safer and more financially-friendly to do so.

Bicycle for $100

33. Drop all forms of paid entertainment, at least temporarily.

If you’re looking to move out as soon as possible, it would be prudent to drop all forms of paid entertainment, even cheap streaming services like Netflix. Instead, watch videos for free on YouTube. You can also watch movies for free online at these 10 best sites.

34. Restrict your entertainment options to only those that are free.

There are usually many ways of having a life without spending much money. You could catch a free movie screening, enjoy a free concert, or visit a free tourist attaction (like museums). Even in Singapore, one of the most expensive countries in the world, there are plenty of beautiful places that you can visit for free, like this beautiful beach.

Visiting Sentosa, Singapore

35. Make your own gifts.

Instead of purchasing expensive gifts, consider making inexpensive yet thoughtful ones. It could be something as simple as a homemade card. Alternatively, get inspiration by looking through this massive list of inexpensive homemade gifts.

36. Cut out shopping and impulse buying.

To reduce your number of impulse purchases, simply cut out shopping from your life, at least temporarily. You could:

  • Stop visiting malls;
  • Block all online shopping sites;
  • Block all online shopping apps; and
  • Unsubscribe from all shopping newsletters.

37. Get rid of vices.

You can consider taking the extra mile to get rid of any vices, such as gambling or smoking. This will be good for your physical, mental and financial health.

38. Ride on a parent’s health insurance plan.

To save some money, you can ride on a parent’s health insurance plan until you’re 26. After, you’d have to get your own plan.

39. Reduce your mobile phone expenses.

If you’re paying more than $20-$30 a month for your mobile phone bill, you might want to consider reducing this expense. You can check out some of Mr Money Mustache’s inexpensive recommendations for mobile services.

40. Reduce grooming expenses.

A good way to reduce grooming expenses is to cut your own hair. MP from Mustachian Post has a great guide on how to cut your own hair, and the savings from this might shock you.

5 Tips for Optimising Your Savings

After finding a job (whether full-time, part-time, or temporary) and getting some quick cash (from garage sales, recycling, etc.), as well as minimising your expenses, you’re likely to start seeing your savings grow. Perhaps you still can’t afford to move out yet, but you will be able to in due time.

One thing that will get you closer to moving out is optimising your savings. How can you do this?

41. Buy only the essentials.

To save some serious cash, you might want to consider cutting out everything except essentials. Essentials consist only of what you need for daily living, such as paying rent to your parents, food to eat, transport to get to where you need to go, etc.

42. Try to save at least 50% of your take-home salary.

With all of the tips above, it’s likely that you should be able to save at least 50% of your salary, if not more. Even if you earn only a modest salary, 50% savings each month will go a long way after you move out.

43. Source for the bank account that pays the highest interest.

Since you’re now saving quite a bit of money, you should research for the best bank account that will help you grow your money. 

For example, in Singapore, the best bank accounts now pay at least 1% to over 2%. A quick search on Google should reveal the best bank accounts in your country.

44. Save all bonuses.

If you receive a bonus from your employer, it would be best if you could save it in your bank account. Many people view bonuses as “fun money”, and prefer to spend them. However, if you can’t afford to move out, and if moving out is your priority, it would be much easier for you to do so if you save your bonus money.

45. Build your emergency fund.

An emergency fund is a cushion of cash that protects you from unexpected or unforeseen situations, like a medical expenses, or home repair. Ideally, you should have at least between 3-6 months of living expenses in cold, hard cash.

8 Tips for Paying off Debt

If you have any debt, you might want to consider reducing them as much as possible, or even eliminating them altogether, before moving out. This is what we would recommend, as mentioned in our guide to moving out on this blog.

46. Confront your debt.

Be honest with yourself as to how much debt you have. If you have $50,000 worth of student debt, ignoring this fact won’t make your debt go away.

Find out how much you owe, in total, across all different categories of debt, whether it’s student debt, credit card debt, or other consumer loans.

47. Resolve to change your habits.

What caused you to rack up debt in the first place? If you have student loan debt, don’t throw into further debt by going for more tertiary formal education. If you have credit card debt, get rid of your credit cards and transact only in cash.

48. Make more than just the minimum payment.

There are numerous problems with making just the minimum payment on your debt. First, you’ll be paying very little towards the principal. Second, your interest will continue ballooning. And third, your credit scores could suffer.

49. Pay off the debt with the highest interest rate.

Mathematically, it makes sense to pay off the debt with the highest interest rate. This will result in you paying as little interest as possible. This is known as the “debt avalanche” method.

However, for many, the approach of “paying off the debt with the smallest outstanding” might be more feasible. (Please refer to the next point.)

50. Alternatively, pay off the debt with the smallest outstanding.

This is also known as the “debt snowball” method, recommended by Dave Ramsey. Knocking out the smallest debt, regardless of interest rate, helps to build confidence and motivation. Read all about the debt snowball method right here.

51. Seek help if your debt is out of control.

Sometimes, if we feel overwhelmed, a good course of action is to seek help. We can speak to a trusted loved one with experience, seek out a counsellor, or join credit counselling and debt management programmes. A quick Google search will give you plenty of reliable, trusted options.

52. Find ways to motivate yourself.

A good way to keep yourself motivated is to track your progress by maintaining a simple spreadsheet, and making this spreadsheet as visible as possible. Here are many other ways that you motivate yourself.

53. Remind yourself of your goals daily.

Always remember your why. Why do you want to get out of debt? So you can move out ASAP? So you can finally quit your job to travel the world?

Remind yourself of your goals daily. Imagine what it would be like to have achieved your goals. Let that keep you motivated each day.

6 Tips for Building Your Credit

Why is it so important for you to build your credit? This is because landlords are likely to check your credit history to determine whether you can afford your rent. With a bad credit history, or no credit history, you’re less likely to be able to rent a place of your own.

54. Pay student loans on time.

If you have student loans, pay them off diligently. Make more than just the minimum payment. Make sure you’re never late with your payments. This is one way in which you can build your credit.

55. Open a credit card.

If you don’t have student loans, apply for a credit card. Before applying, research for the credit card with the best cashback or rewards programme. More importantly, ensure that the minimum spend isn’t high. You don’t want to end up spending more just to meet the minimum.

If you can’t get approved for an unsecured credit card, go for a secured one instead, where you make cash deposits before spending on the card.

56. Set your credit limit extremely low.

If you have a tendency to overspend, set your credit limit at something really low, like $200 to $300. 

57. Use your credit card only for essentials.

Since you’ll likely set your credit limit low to prevent excessive spending, remember to use your credit card to pay for only essentials, like groceries or transport.

58. Pay all bills in full, on time.

Don’t make just the minimum spend on your bills. If you’re using credit cards, this will cause you to get slapped with a 24% p.a. interest rate.

59. Don’t max out your credit cards.

8 Tips for Making a Plan to Move Out

It’s alright if you can’t afford to move out yet. That just means that you have more time to make a plan and ensure that your moving out process goes smoothly. What can you do to plan your moving out?

60. Communicate with your parents.

Depending on your parents’ attitudes towards moving out, you should broach the topic differently. If your parents don’t want you to move out, be sensitive to their feelings, and reassure them that you’ll check in frequently. On the other hand, if they want you to move out, your situation will be a lot simpler.

61. Involve your parents in your plan to move out.

If your parents are reluctant to let you go, involving them in your plan to move out might offer them some much-needed reassurance.

62. Set a reasonable timeline.

If it’s not possible for you to move out within the next month, don’t force it. Give yourself a reasonable timeline of at least a few months to build up your savings. This will be less stressful for you and those around you, and will give you sufficient time to ensure that your moving out goes smoothly.

63. Set a specific date to move out.

Setting a specific date will force you to make more detailed plans to ensure that you’re able to move out by this specific date. 

64. Set daily, weekly, and monthly goals before moving out.

Now that you’ve set your specific date, detail what you need to get done before this date. This can be as simple as buying packing boxes, to something more pivotal like securing a lease on your new apartment.

65. Try your hardest to stick to the date you set for yourself.

Get your financial house in order before the date that you set for yourself. Do everything in your power to stick to the date.

66. Reassess your situation when your due date is up.

However, if it appears that you’re not able to move out when your date is up, despite you trying your hardest, don’t force it upon yourself to do so. It could be that your timeline wasn’t as reasonable as you thought, and it’s perfectly fine for you to reassess and make another plan.

67. Once you’ve hit all your financial goals, prepare to move out.

If your due date isn’t up yet, but you’ve hit all your financial goals, as we’ve recommended in this post here, you can move forward your timeline and prepare to move out.

14 Tips for Minimising One-Off Moving Expenses

As explained in our post here, moving out can be expensive, as it involves one-off moving expenses, as well as your monthly recurring expenses after you move out.

If you can’t afford to move out yet, and would like to speed up your timeline, minimising the one-off expenses will really help.

68. Move as few things as possible.

Moving fewer things would mean you needing to buy fewer packing boxes, less packing tape, and not needing even hire a moving truck.

69. Sell, donate, recycle, or toss.

If you’re able to sell your personal belongings in a yard sale for cash, that’s the best case scenario. Alternatively, recycle whatever you can for less cash. You can also consider donating or tossing.

70. Move out during the off season.

Moving out in winter will likely be cheaper than moving out in summer. If you’d like to save even more money, you could move out mid-month, on a weekday, and avoid the peak hours during that day. It’s cheaper than moving out at the beginning of the month, on weekends, and during peak period.

71. Don’t hire a moving company.

Hiring a moving company will always cost more, as you have to pay for additional services provided, such as including packing, dismantling, hoisting, etc. In Singapore, hiring a moving company will cost at least $500, while DIY moving will set you back less than $400.

72. Get friends and family to help.

In the spirit of DIY moving, you can enlist the help of loved ones. It’s cheaper to buy your loved ones beer and pizza than it is to hire a moving company.

73. Source for free packing boxes.

Instead of buying expensive packing boxes, which might set you back a few hundred, consider sourcing for free ones on Craigslist, grocery stores, your workplace, or any of these other places.

free stuff

74. Use free alternatives for packing paper and cushioning.

You can consider using rags, old sheets, newspapers, and even your clothes for packing paper and cushioning. 

75. Score free furniture from Craigslist.

 If you type in “free furniture” into the search box, or simply check the box titled “free stuff”, you might be able to score a few hidden gems. For example, the screenshot below shows a pretty decent sofa set and sofa bed that’s absolutely free (this would set you back a few hundred if you were to buy from even the cheapest stores).

Free Furniture from Craigslist

76. Buy brand new, cheap furniture from IKEA.

IKEA has tonnes of great buys, from a mattress that costs just $100, to a sofa set that costs less than that. Check out this dining table and 4 chairs for just $99. It’s the best place to get brand new, inexpensive furniture.

IKEA Dining Set, inexpensive

77. Buy second-hand, good-quality furniture.

Craigslist also has plenty of great buys, if you don’t mind second-hand furniture. Alternatively, search for other second-hand online marketplaces. In Singapore, the most popular second-hand online marketplace is Carousell.

78. Go for cheap accommodation.

The cheaper you place of lodging, the less your one-off security deposits and housing agent fees.

For example, if you rent a place for $1,000, your security deposit will be between $1,000 to $3,000, and your agent fees will be $500 to $1,000.

On the other hand, if you rent a place for $500, your security deposit will be between $500 to $1,500, and your agent fees will be $250 to $500.

79. Reduce housing agent fees.

Circumvent housing agent fees by putting yourself in direct contact with potential landlords. You can do this through connection, word of mouth, or online platforms. 

For example, in Singapore, you can find housing without agent fees by contacting landlords directly on Carousell.

No Agent Fees for Room

80. Reduce all other fees.

Avoid pet fees by not having any pets. Avoid expensive things like cable, which will cost you money in set-up fees. If you put yourself in direct contact with the landlord (as explained in the previous point), you might also be able to avoid rent application fees.

81. Check for tax deductions.

Tax deductions differ from country to country.

For example, in America, although moving expenses are no longer tax deductible for federal tax purposes, except for active members of the armed forces, some states do still allow tax deductions for moving expenses on state tax.

In Singapore, relocation expenses are deductible against the cash allowance provided, but not against any other income.

19 Tips for Researching and Minimising Future Monthly Expenses

In addition to moving expenses (which was explained above), you will also be responsible for your monthly recurring expenses after you move out.

If you can’t afford to move out yet, researching and minimising your future monthly expenses will help you speed up your timeline. To do so:

82. Practise budgeting.

Budgeting doesn’t always come easy and naturally for many people. To get the hang of budgeting, it would help to start now. Start keeping track of your income and expenses. To do so, you can use free budget apps, like Wally.

83. Make it a habit to record all spending.

Whether it’s a dinner out, or just a pack of gum, make it a habit to record all spending. Although expenses of $1 or less may not seem like much, it could potentially add up over the weeks or months.

84. Make it a habit to record any and all income.

Similarly, make it a habit to record all income. This could be as little as $2 you found on the ground, or even a $0.50 cashback from a small grocery purchase.

85. Figure out exactly how much you'll be making each month.

If you’ve got a job lined up, it would be best if you knew in granular detail the following information regarding your salary:

  • Gross salary;
  • Total tax payable (such federal, state, local, if applicable);
  • Any tax benefits applicable to you;
  • Retirement contributions (and how such contributions are beneficial);
  • All deductions applicable.

86. Create a budget for your monthly expenses after moving out.

When creating your monthly budget, ensure you’ve catered for every conceivable category of expense. Here’s a great guide on all the different categories that you might have to include in your budget

Look through each individual category of expense, and see what you can reduce.

87. Remember to account for any debt.

When creating your monthly budget, don’t forget to include any debt repayment as well. Is your debt payment manageable? Can you make repayment with ease? If you’re not able to do so, delay your moving out plans until you’ve brought down your debt to something you feel is reasonably manageable.

88. Research living options.

Where is your job located? Is there a neighbourhood that’s cheap, yet safe? What’s the cost of a studio apartment? How much does a single room in a shared apartment go for? Research your future living area to find out where you can get the most bang for your buck.

89. Get as many roommates as possible.

If you’re looking to reduce your rent as much as possible, start by finding roommates. For example, in Singapore where real estate prices are through the roof, you could live on your own for as little as S$250 a month (US$170), if you don’t mind sharing a room.

4 people using bunk-beds in a single bedroom. By getting more roommates, you can afford to move out and rent inexpensive places like this.

90. Rent as small a room as you might need.

If you don’t want to share a room, you can consider renting a single room in a shared apartment. This will still be significantly cheaper than renting a small studio apartment on your own. In Singapore, a bedroom might cost S$500, while a studio apartment costs S$1,500.

With limited personal belongings, you might find that a single bedroom of space is adequate for your needs.

Singapore Rent $500 per Month

91. Stay far from the city-centre.

If the commute isn’t an absolute deal-breaker, you could consider staying as far from the city-centre as possible. This will bring down your costs by 50%, if not more.

92. Sign a longer lease.

Usually, landlords will be willing to give a discount on your rent, in exchange for the certainty that you’ll stick around for a while. If you find a place you absolutely love, this might be a good way to reduce your rent.

93. Negotiate your rent after being a star tenant for a while.

After you’ve stuck around for a while, consider negotiating your rent with your landlord. He might be willing to give you a discount so that you’d stick around.

94. Find an inexpensive neighbourhood, balancing that with safety.

Living in an inexpensive neighbourhood doesn’t just mean cheaper rent prices. It also means cheaper food and other necessities.

95. Use as little utilities as possible.

Use as much natural light as possible. Instead of turning on the air conditioning during the summers, use a fan. Wear thicker layers instead of turning up the heating too much.

96. Source for energy efficient appliances and bulbs.

While you might not reap huge financial benefits from energy efficiency, the small amounts add up over time.

97. Check if your company offers health insurance.

One of the benefits to being an employee is that your health insurance is usually fully covered. Do some research on your company’s health insurance, and try to get as much benefit from it as possible.

98. Utilise all company benefits.

Research and find out more about your company benefits. How much paid time-off do you have? Medical coverage? Insurance? Paid lunches? Free pantry usage? Memberships (to gyms, etc.)?

99. Live below your means.

Most importantly, ensure that you’re always living below your means. If you created your budget but found that your income isn’t able to cover all your expenses, figure out a way to increase your income before moving out. If you can’t afford to move out yet, don’t force it, and don’t take on debt to do so.

100. Be mindful of lifestyle inflation.

As you score promotions and pay raises, you might be tempted to increase your lifestyle expenses. While it’s perfectly okay to treat yourself, be mindful of the concept of lifestyle inflation, and always remember to live below your means.

Can’t afford to move out yet? Don’t worry. If you take the advice of the above tips, you’d be able to land a job, raise some cash quickly, save lots of money while living with parents, optimise your savings, pay off a significant amount of debt, build your credit, make a plan to move out, minimise your moving expenses and monthly expenses. This will get you much closer to moving out than you might think. Good luck!

What other tips might help someone who can’t afford to move out yet?

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Introduction

So, you want to move out of your parents’ house, preferably as soon as possible. However, your bank account is showing a big fat $0. Is it still possible for you to move out with no money?

To cut a long story short – yes, it’s possible to move out with no money, and this blog post details a 4-step guide that will allow you to do exactly that.

Assumptions

This blog post assumes that your moving out ASAP is a matter of urgency. As such, the more conservative rules of “start saving money”, “save 6 months of living expenses”, “find a stable job”, “don’t move until you are certain that you can afford it”, and “re-evaluate your decision” are not going to apply here.

In contrast, this blog post will show you exactly how you can move out ASAP, even if you have no money right now.

But first, let’s start take a look at how much moving out might cost you.

One-Off Expenses and Monthly Recurring Expenses

There are two kinds of expenses that you might incur when moving out. First, you have one-off moving expenses. And next, you have your monthly bills.

Both these expenses determine whether you can move out with no money.

One-Off Moving Expenses

Moving Costs
Security Deposits
Fees
Furniture and Furnishing

Monthly Recurring Expenses

Rent
Renters’ Insurance
Utilities
Groceries
Transport
Other Expenses

As discussed in a previous post, titled “Can You Afford to Move Out of Your Parents’ House?”, you’d see that a typical frugal person might spend $3,600 on one-off moving expenses. If he or she decides to be ultra-frugal on a month-to-month basis, he could spend as little as $1,000 a month on rent, utilities, food, transport, and the works.

But what if you don’t have this kind of money?

Relax, take a deep breath, and we’ll help you through this in Steps 1 to 4.

But first, you’re going to need to raise a little bit of cash, fast.

Step 1 – Raise a Little Cash Fast

There are a few ways that you can raise cash almost immediately:

Sell all your stuff.

What are some things that you have at home that aren’t essential to daily living? These include electronics, books, comics, DVDs, CDs, clothes, games, toys, knick-knacks, and so on. If your priority is to get out of your parents’ house as soon as possible, you will have to sell as many items as possible, even those that hold sentimental value. Whatever you don’t need for survival, sell it.

To sell these items, you can choose an online platform (such as eBay), or hold a garage sale.

Selling vinyls at a garage sale.

Track down loose change.

If you’re lucky, you might be able to find loose change in couch cushions, car seats, old cabinets, and basically anywhere around the house. As you’re selling your stuff (discussed in the above point), keep an eye out for this.

Take on odd jobs.

You will be able to fill an odd job vacancy without too much hassle. There’s no need for multiple interviews or amazing resumes. You could easily get an odd job by tomorrow, if you wanted. Examples of odd jobs include doing grocery runs, cleaning the yard, washing cars, and so on.

Donate blood plasma.

To donate blood plasma, you need to be between 18 to 69 years old, and weigh at least 110 pounds (50 kilograms). You can make anywhere between $20 to $50 per donation, and up to $300 per month.

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How much time will this take?

Not too long, 2 weeks, tops. You could easily itemise almost everything you own, set it up in front of your house, and hold a garage sale in 2 weeks.

During these 2 weeks, you could take on odd jobs around your neighbourhood and donate a little blood plasma.

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How much cash can you raise?

If you’re lucky, you might be able to raise as much as $1,250, the breakdown of which is as follows:

 Activity  Cash
 Selling all your stuff  $500
 Tracking down loose change  $12
 Taking on odd jobs*  $588
 Donating blood plasma**  $150
 Total  $1,250

*Assuming a minimum wage of $7 an hour, 6 hours a day, every day for 2 weeks ($7 x 6 x 14 = $588).

**Assuming a maximum of $300 a month, 2 weeks will allow you to raise $150.

Having a little bit of money will go a long way when you’re on your own. Unless it’s literally a matter of life and death, stay 2 weeks, raise your cash quick, then move out.

With your $1,250 of cash on hand, you’re now ready to plan your exit from your parents’ house.

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What if you can't raise any cash?

The truth is, having a little bit of cash can go a long way when you’re on your own. However, if you’re unable to raise any cash at all, don’t worry. You can still move out with no money. Read on to find out how.

Step 2 – Minimise One-Off Moving Expenses

As mentioned above, one-off moving expenses include actual moving costs, security deposits, fees, furniture and furnishing, and a typical frugal person looking to move into an apartment might spend $3,600 on these expenses.

Side Note: For a more detailed breakdown of all these expenses, please click here.

However, since you don’t have a lot of money with you, there are a few ways that you can minimise these expenses.

If you don’t have any money at all, you’ll learn how to move out with no money by paying $0 in these one-off moving expenses.

Move as few things as possible.

As mentioned above, to raise cash quick, you should sell off anything that isn’t essential to your daily living. By selling off as much as possible, you will have less to move to a new place, which decreases your one-off moving costs.

Hitch-hike.

Alternatively, with just a few bags of things, you could attempt to hitch-hike your way to your destination.

Source for free packing materials.

Instead of buying boxes, get them free from friends, local stores or supermarkets. An alternative to using boxes is to use bags. If you’re not packing a lot, bags are more functional. As for packing paper and cushioning, you could use recycled paper, newspapers, old sheets, rags or even your clothes.

Score free furniture from Craigslist.

 If you type in “free furniture” into the search box, or simply check the box titled “free stuff”, you might be able to score a few hidden gems. For example, the screenshot below shows a pretty decent sofa set and sofa bed that’s absolutely free (this would set you back a few hundred if you were to buy from even the cheapest stores).

Free Furniture from Craigslist

Search the area you want to live in for really cheap accommodation.

The cheaper you place of lodging, the less your one-off security deposits and housing agent fees.

Get around housing agent fees.

By not using a housing agent, you could save up to as much as 1 month’s rent in fees. To do so, you would need to find platforms that put you directly in touch with landlords. In Singapore, you can find landlords directly on Carousell; this is a platform mainly for selling and buying second-hand items, but has been very useful in helping to connect tenants and landlords without housing agents. This also helps in removing the housing application fees.

The screenshot below shows you a listing from Carousell with no housing agent fees.

No Agent Fees for Room

Minimise all other fees.

Avoid pet fees by not having any pets. Avoid expensive things like cable, which will cost you money in set-up fees.

Take up a job that offers free housing.

There are a few jobs that offer free housing, including:

  1. Joining the military;
  2. Working on a cruise ship;
  3. Becoming a park ranger; and
  4. Becoming an au-pair.

If this seems like something you’re open to, here’s a list of 20 jobs that offer free lodging. By doing so, you won’t have to fork out a cent in landlord and utilities security deposits, housing agent fees, connection fees, furniture and other furnishings, allowing you to move out with no money.

How to Pay $0 in One-Off Moving Expenses

Let’s assume the following 3 things.

You’ve found a job working on a cruise ship. Since there’s no apartment you need to rent, this means that you won’t have to pay for security deposits and housing-related fees. What about furniture and furnishing? These will be provided to you in your cabin on the cruise ship.

A docked cruise ship. Working on a cruise ship allows you to move out with no money.

You’ve sold almost everything you own, apart from essentials. All you have left are a few pairs of clothes, necessary electronics (like a mobile phone), medication, etc. This means that you don’t need to pay for packing materials and the rental for a moving truck. All you need are a few bags, which you might already own. After which, all you have to do is pick up your bags, board a bus, and head over to your new job on that cruise ship. How much will that cost you? A few dollars, at most.

It’s possible for you to hitch-hike. If you don’t have any money at all, you can consider hitch-hiking. This way, you won’t have to pay for even the public bus transport.

What would your one-off moving out expenses look like? $0.

 Category  Cost
 Moving Costs  $0
 Security Deposits  $0
 Fees  $0
 Furniture  $0
 Total One-Off Expenses  $0

 

This is the second step on how to move out with no money. However, we’re not out of the woods yet. While you might be able to pay very little money (or even no money) on one-off moving expenses, bear in mind that you still have your monthly recurring expenses to deal with.

How might we minimise these monthly expenses? Let’s find out.

Step 3 – Live for Free

To move out with no money at all, you will have to live for free.

How can you live for free? You would need to get the 3 biggest categories of expenses in a typical person’s budget – housing, food, and transport – for free. How? Let’s go through each one in detail.

Free Housing

If you can’t afford to pay for housing, and need to move out with no money, here are a few good ways to get housing for free:

Accept a job that offers free housing.

As mentioned above, there are many jobs that offer free housing, including:

  1. Joining the military;
  2. Working on a cruise ship;
  3. Becoming a park ranger; and
  4. Becoming an au-pair.

If this seems like something you’re open to, here’s a list of 20 jobs that offer free housing. This is probably the best way that you can move out with no money; it’s safe, stable, you get to build a career, and you get paid.

Soldier walking on brown grass. Joining the military can allow you to move out with no money.

House-sit.

This involves living in and looking after a house while the owner is away. House-sitting jobs usually range from a few days to even a few years, and you wouldn’t need to pay a cent in accommodation. Your “payment” to the owner of the house is your looking after the house for him/her. Check out this link for a great guide on house-sitting.

Couch-surf.

Couch-surfing connects “hosts” who have spare beds, couches or floors, to those who need a roof over their head (usually travellers) for a duration of time. Money never exchanges hands, and you can have accommodation for free.

The issue with this is that it’s unlikely that your host will allow you to stay for extended periods of time, such as months or years.

Check out this link for a great guide on couch-surfing.

Join the Workaway programme.

This programme allows people (usually travellers) to pay for room and food, in exchange for work. Work includes household chores and odd jobs. No money is involved, just about 5 hours of your time each day is needed.

You can stay for anywhere between a few days to a year; everything is dependent on the agreement that you have with your host. Note that Workaway costs US$44 per year, so not exactly free, but it’s not a large sum of money either. Check out this link for a great guide on the Workaway programme.

Work on a farm.

Many farms invite people to volunteer for work; what you get in return is free housing and free food.

Your length of stay can vary from a few weeks to a few months, and is largely dependent on what was negotiated between you and your host. Here’s an article with a brief rundown of what it’s like to work on a farm, and here’s a direct link to WWOOF (World Wide Opportunities on Organic Farms).

A man working on a farm. Working on a farm allows you to move out with no money.

Work in a hostel.

Above, we discussed how dorm beds go for as cheap as US$13 a night even in expensive cities like Singapore.

However, if this isn’t an option, you can consider staying in a hostel for free, in exchange for a few hours of work a day. Most hostels require a minimum stay of 2-4 weeks. The longer you can stay, the better, as that means less time training new volunteers once you leave. Check out this link for a great guide on working in hostels.

Stay in a monastery.

Though some monasteries do charge a modest fee for free room and food (breakfast, lunch and dinner), there are many that take in people free of charge.

You don’t need to be a monk or even be of faith to be welcome in the monastery. There’s no work involved, although you may need to adhere to certain strict rules (such as early curfews).

There’s usually a minimum stay of a few days to a week, but it’s unclear as to whether you can stay for a few months at a time. Check out this link for a great guide on sleeping free in monasteries.

Accept help from family or friends.

Well-meaning family members or friends are likely to offer up their own beds or couches to you for free, and this is another method of scoring free accommodation.

However, I wouldn’t recommend staying for too long (beyond 2 weeks), as that may strain relationships.

All of the above tips will allow you to score a nice roof over your head for free, allowing you to effectively move out with no money. In which case, there are many housing-related expenses that you won’t have to pay for, such as renters’ insurance, utilities, and household supplies.

CategoryCost
Rent$0
Renters’ Insurance$0
Utilities$0
Household Supplies$0
Total$0

Free Food

If you can’t afford to pay for food, and need to move out with no money, don’t worry, there are a few ways for you to score free food.

Accept jobs that pay for all of your food.

Similar to how you can score free housing, certain jobs will pay for all your food, such as:

  • Joining the military;
  • Working on a cruise ship; 
  • Becoming a park ranger; and
  • Becoming an au-pair.

All these jobs are likely to allow you to move out with no money.

Join programmes that pay for all your food.

This includes:

  • Joining the Workaway programme;
  • Working on a farm;
  • Working in a hostel; and
  • Staying in a monastery.

Dumpster dive.

Dumpster diving is literally what its name suggests – “diving” and searching through dumpsters for edible food (or items of value, if that’s what you’re searching for).

Fresh, edible produce is constantly being tossed in the trash by companies, which results in dumpster diving being a feasible method of scoring free food. Check out this story behind one of Singapore’s most famous dumpster divers.

Score free food from wholesalers.

Wholesalers typically don’t sell ugly or misshapen food. They will also toss out whole crates of perfectly edible strawberries, for example, if even just a couple strawberries in 1 single pack has turned mouldy.

In Singapore, one-third of all produce doesn’t make it to the retailers (wet markets or supermarkets), as the wholesalers will throw out these food upon receipt. That’s a lot of food that’s being tossed out, and you might be able to get a piece of that pie.

Check out this story on how Singapore’s food rescue group salvages 1,000 kg of free food each time they visit the wholesale centre.

Cartons of food from wholesalers, which will allow you to move out with no money.

Become a mystery diner.

As a mystery diner, what you would need to do first is to have a meal at a restaurant. After, your task is to provide a report on your experience. If everything goes satisfactorily, you would be reimbursed for the cost of your meal. Sometimes, you might even be paid extra on top of the meal cost reimbursement.

Financial Panther has a great guide on being a mystery/secret diner, and he’s done incredibly well in racking up free meals in fancy restaurants. 

Sign up for apps and newsletters that offer free food.

While this is not something that you’ll enjoy on a regular basis, you might be able to score some free food from apps and newsletters that provide one-off offers.

For example, certain restaurants or fast food joints might provide you with free food welcome gifts when you first get on your newsletter.

These are country-dependent, so you might want to turn to Google for help. You can search for things like:

  • “Supermarket cashback apps in [insert your country/state/city]”
  • “Cashback apps in [insert your country/state/city]”
  • “[insert restaurant/fast food joint] newsletter”
  • “zero-waste apps in [insert your country/state/city]”

Grow your own food.

If you have the luxury of a little space, you might want to consider growing your own food. You can grow your own food anywhere, from railings to small containers. In fact, you could grow your own food as you have a window. For more tips on how to grow your own food in very small spaces, check out this guide here.

Home-grown herbs in pots. Move out with no money by growing your own food.

All of the above tips will allow you to score free food, allowing you to move out with no money at all. What would you grocery/dining out bill look like each month? $0.

CategoryCost
Groceries$0
Dining Out$0
Total$0

Free Transport

If you can’t afford to pay for transport, and need to move out with no money, here are a few ways that you do that for free.

Cycle.

Spend a little money picking up a second-hand bicycle, which could go for as little as $50 to $500, and then cycle everywhere you need to go. In the picture below, you’ll find that you can get a decent bicycle for $100.

In his book, Millionaire Teacher, Andrew Hallam talks about riding his mountain bike 70 miles a day, through rain and sleet, to work and back. Though that involves mind-boggling determination, it’s something that you could consider doing if you’re extremely tight on cash.

Bicycle for $100

Skateboard.

If skateboarding’s more your thing, then consider this instead. You could pick up a second-hand skateboard for as little as $50.

Walk.

If you live close enough to your workplace and grocery store, you could save a lot of money by just walking to where you need to go. Purple from A Purple Life telecommutes to work, and does all grocery runs through walking

Telecommute.

If your job can be done completely online, you might have a good case for telecommuting to work. Alternatively, find a new job that encourages telecommuting, or find online sources of income (like becoming a freelancer or virtual assistant).

Hitch-hike.

This is a means of transportation where you receive lifts from strangers in passing vehicles. The common courtesy is to offer to pay for some gas, but if you don’t have enough for that, you could offer a small gift or souvenir instead.

You could hitch-hike anywhere, and use these tips to help you in your journeys. You could even do extended hitch-hikes, like how Brendan from Bren on the Road covered 1,300 kilometres (over 800 miles) and 4 countries while hitch-hiking the entire way.

All of the above tips allow you to get around for very little or no money at all, and eliminates any car-related expenses, private transport expenses, and even public transport expenses. As such, you’re able to move out with no money.

CategoryCost
Car Loan$0
Car Insurance$0
Car Maintenance$0
Road Tax$0
Private Transportation (Uber, etc.)$0
Public Transportation$0
Total$0

Step 4 – If You Can’t Live for Free, Minimise Monthly Expenses

However, if accepting a job that comes with free housing, sleeping in strangers’ houses, and dumpster diving isn’t for you, and if you have a little money to rent your own place, here’s what you can do to minimise your monthly recurring expenses as much as possible.

 

Minimise Housing Expenses

Get as many roommates as possible.

If a 3-bedroom apartment costs $1,500 a month, taking just 1 bedroom to yourself will cost only $500 a month. If you share that bedroom with a partner, that’ll set you back only $250 a month.

In Singapore, an expensive city, you could spend as little as S$250 per month on rent (about US$170) if you’re willing to share a room with 3 other people. Here’s what it’s like to have 4 people sharing a single room in Singapore:

4 people using bunk-beds in a single bedroom. By getting more roommates, you can afford to move out and rent inexpensive places like this.

Stay as far from the city as possible.

Usually, the closer to the city centre you are, the more expensive rents would be. The US$170 a month apartment shared above is located far from the city centre, and is therefore affordable.

Reduce utility bills.

You can do this by not using excessive amounts of air-conditioning or heating (or even better, not using these at all), using only natural light, not having a mobile data plan, and using energy-saving appliances.

Stay in hostels.

If you’re unable to secure an apartment, you could consider staying in hostels. This is a slightly more expensive option than renting a cheap apartment, but still won’t break the bank.

For example, even though Singapore is an expensive city, you’re able to get a dorm bed for as cheap as US$13 a night. Per month, that would set you back US$390. Check out the prices of hostels at Hostel World.

Hostels in Singapore go for as little as US$13 a night.

Even in an expensive city like Singapore, you could pay very little for housing costs per month:

CategoryCost
Rent$250
Renters' Insurance$20
Utilities$50
Household Supplies$20
Total$340

Reduce Food Expenses

There are plenty of ways to reduce food expenditure. However, if you don’t have a lot of money, and would like to cut your food budget to the bone without starving, here are the 5 best ways for you to do so.

Go vegetarian.

Staples and vegetables are much cheaper than meats.

Staples: For example, staples like whole-grain oats go for $0.20 per serving.

Vegetables: In Singapore, 500 grams of tomatoes cost just S$1.37 (about US$0.95), whereas 500 grams of a ribeye steak will set you back S$9 (US$6.20).

Vegetables vs Meat Prices

Shop at local markets instead of supermarkets.

In Singapore, these local markets are called “wet markets”. You can get vegetables like potato leaves for $1.50 per 400 grams, whereas in supermarkets these go for $4.50 for the same weight. For more cost savings in Singapore local markets, check out this article here.

Buy produce that is on sale.

Many supermarkets have “bargain buy”, “flash sales” or “priced to sell” items. These items are usually nearing their expiry dates and need clearing. By buying only produce that is on sale, you will be able to score up to 50% in additional savings.

In local or wet markets, you might be able to score discounts when vendors start closing up stores. They want to get rid of the day’s produce, and are usually more open to bargaining.

Never buy junk food or snacks.

In contrast to healthy food, such as vegetables and staples, junk food is (strangely) priced at a premium. In Singapore, a 185 gram pack of Lay’s can set you back anywhere between S$4 (when on promotion) to S$5 (usual price). This is mind-boggling, consider that 185 grams of any vegetables will cost less than S$1.

Eat everything you buy, and eliminate food waste.

In addition to reducing your carbon footprint, ensuring that you have zero food waste will ease the strain on your wallet. Here are a few great ways for you to use all your leftovers and reduce food waste. 

Your meals each day might look something like this, as taken from the article on Business Insider on what it’s like to eat on a budget of $2 a day:

MealIngredientsCost
Breakfast1 banana + 1 serving of oats$0.39
Snack1 banana$0.19
Lunch 1 serving of tortilla + 2 servings of peanut butter$0.61
Tea1 serving of sunflower seeds$0.14
Dinner4 servings of pasta + 1 serving of butter$0.58
Daily Total-$1.91

With a total spending of $2 per day, your monthly grocery bill will amount to only $60.

If you have the extra cash, you could actually increase your spending to $100 a month, and eat very well. Check out all these guides from other personal finance bloggers who spend, at the minimum, $1 per meal ($90 per month), to a maximum of just $140 per month. It’s incredible, really.

 

Reduce Transport Expenses

Since money is tight, private transportation (such as having your own car, taking cab rides, or even ride-sharing) is out of the question. The only option that you have left should be public transportation.

Even so, public transportation isn’t always cheap, and can still put a strain on your wallet. As such, here are a few ways for you to reduce your public transportation costs.

Travel off-peak (avoid rush hour).

In order to alleviate the rush hour issue, some countries may offer fare incentives to those willing to travel during off-peak periods. In Singapore, for example, you can enjoy a $0.50 discount on your fares if you board the train or bus before 7.45AM.

Fun Fact – Back in 2017, if you alighted from your train or bus before 7.45AM, your fare would be absolutely free. (This has, unfortunately, been discontinued.)

If your country/city offers such fare incentives, do take advantage of them.

Buy monthly public transport concession passes.

Travel concession passes typically allow you to enjoy unlimited travel on public transport for a fixed monthly price. In Singapore, a monthly travel pass will cost just $128, and you can enjoy unlimited travel all over the country. This caps your travel expenses to just $128 a month.

Fun Fact – Singapore used to offer an off-peak travel pass, at just $80 a month. (However, this has also been discontinued.)

If your country/city offers these monthly passes, and you do a lot of travelling, this might be a good way to save some money on transport.

Take advantage of cashback credit cards.

If you have the ability to open new credit cards, research the best cashback credit card for public transport, apply for it, and use it. In Singapore, you can get up to an 8% cash rebate when you use credit cards to pay for your public transport.

Take advantage of money-saving apps.

You can also research for travel cashback and reward apps. In Singapore, for example, Singtel Dash offered a 50% cashback on your first 10 public transport transactions from mid-2019 to early-2020. I personally took advantage of this promotion and saved myself an easy $15 on transport that month. 

Calculate your fare.

Another easy way to save money is to brainstorm various routes of getting to your destination, calculate your fare for each different route, and take the cheapest route. In Singapore, this is made easy with public transport fare calculators.

Assuming that you live in Singapore, and you take advantage of off-peak travel, here’s how much it’ll cost you to get to work and back home by public transport over a month:

DayCost
Monday$1 + $1.50*
Tuesday$1 + $1.50
Wednesday$1 + $1.50
Thursday$1 + $1.50
Friday$1 + $1.50
Saturday$0
Sunday$0
Total$12.50

*A regular reasonable trip from the city centre to the heartlands will set you back around $1.50. By taking advantage of off-peak travel, you would spend around $1. Getting to the office and back each day would therefore cost $1 + $1.50 = $2.50.

This brings the weekly cost to $12.50 ($2.50 x 5).

Over a month, that’s only $50.

Over a month, if you’re living on only the essentials, you could spend as little as:

CategoryCost
Rent$250
Renters’ Insurance$20
Utilities$50
Household Supplies$20
Groceries$60
Other Living Expenses$5
Transport$50
Healthcare$0
Health Insurance$0
Total$455

Earlier in Step 1, we talked about raising some cash fast. Assuming you raised $1,250, avoided most fees like we discussed above in Step 2, paid a one-month landlord deposit of $250, utilities deposit of $40, you would still have enough leftover to survive 2 months without a job.

In fact, if you spend just $455 a month, you could easily make do with a minimum wage job.

In Singapore, the minimum wage is $1,300, which is more than enough for you to cover all your expenses. Minimum wage jobs are usually in the F&B industry or menial labour jobs, which are usually common to find, and easy enough to land.

And that’s how you raise cash quick, pay for one-off expenses, and survive 2 months of living on your own, even if you have no money now.

 

Recommendations

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Don’t underestimate the importance of raising cash.

You might have realised by now that you could skip Step 1 (raising cash fast) completely, since there are a number of options for you to move out with no money, and live for free. However, if there are job openings in your area, or if you have items to sell at home, don’t skip this step.

Having a little bit of money when you’re on your own can go a long way. If you have unexpected medical expenses, you will be able to pay for them. If you find yourself stranded in the middle of nowhere, you have enough to pay for a cab ride out of there.

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If you need free housing, pick a job that provides this – my recommendation would be to join the military.

Unless you’re super passionate about living on a farm or in a monastery or in a hostel in exchange for work, it would be best to find a job that pays for all your accommodation and food. And the most stable of these careers? The military. They put a roof over your head, feed you, clothe you, educate you, and pay you. You’ll come out of there wiser and richer.

On the other hand, the other options seem less stable. For example, if the hostel no longer needs work, or can’t afford to feed you, you’ll find yourself on the street.

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If you prefer to pay for housing, live as frugally as possible. Live within your means.

Get as many roommates if possible. Use as little utilities as possible. Stay far from the city centre. Feed yourself through dumpster diving; it’s free and sustainable. Cycle and walk wherever you can. Save any money that you can. Never live above your means.

Summary (TL;DR)

If you need to move out with no money:

Sell everything you have and leave home with only your essentials (at most a couple of bags of personal belongings).

If you don’t have enough to pay for transport, hitch-hike to your destination. This could be a hostel, farm, monastery, etc.

After, live for free.

Free Housing

Accept a job with free housing
House-sit
Couch-surf
Join the Workaway programme
Work on a farm
Work in a hostel
Stay in a monastery
Accept help from family or friends

Free Food

Accepting a job with free food
Join a programme with free food
Dumpster dive
Going to wholesalers
Mystery dining
Sign up for apps and newsletters
Grow your own food.

Free Transport

Cycle
Skateboard
Walk
Telecommute
Hitch-hike

If you have a little money:

You will have even more options. On top of the above, you might be able to:

  • Move with more personal belongings (you don’t have to sell everything you own).
  • Rent your own bed in an apartment.
  • Spend a little money feeding yourself every month.
  • Use public transportation to get to where you want to go.

However, you should minimise any expenses that you might incur.

Minimise one-off moving expenses

Source for free packing materials
Score free furniture from Craigslist
Rent cheap, thus reducing security deposits
Be resourceful, thus circumventing fees

Reduce housing expenses

Get as many roommates as possible
Stay as far from the city as possible
Reduce utility bills
Stay in hostels

Reduce food expenses

Go vegetarian
Shop at local markets instead of supermarkets
Buy produce that is on sale
Never buy junk food or snacks
Eat everything you buy
Eliminate food waste

Reduce transport expenses

Travel off-peak (avoid rush hour)
Buy monthly public transport concession passes
Take advantage of cashback credit cards
Take advantage of money-saving apps
Calculate your fare

This will allow you to live for as little as $455 a month.

CategoryCost
Rent$250
Renters’ Insurance$20
Utilities$50
Household Supplies$20
Groceries$60
Other Living Expenses$5
Transport$50
Healthcare$0
Health Insurance$0
Total$455

Frequently Asked Questions

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How can I live on my own with no money?

There are actually quite a few options for you to live on your own with no money. Our Step 3 above covers everything you need to know about free housing, free food, and free transport.

For free housing, you can accept a job that offers free housing, house-sit, couch-surf, join the Workaway programme, work on a farm, work in a hostel, stay in a monastery or accept help from family or friends.

For free food, you can accept a job that pays for all meals, join a programme that offers free food, dumpster dive, visit wholesalers, mystery dine, sign up for apps and newsletters, and grow your own food.

For free transport, you can cycle, skateboard, walk, telecommute, or hitch-hike.

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Should I leave home with no money?

You could leave home with no money, but this isn’t recommended. Having a little money will go a long way when you’re on your own with no one else to rely on.

Before leaving home, try to raise cash quickly by selling all your stuff, tracking down loose change, taking on odd jobs, and donating blood plasma.

This will take at most 2 weeks, and you might be able to raise anywhere between a few hundred bucks to even $1,250. (All this has been elaborated upon in Step 1.)

Unless leaving home is a matter of life and death, staying for another 2 weeks to prepare for your moving out might not hurt.

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Is $1,000 a month enough to live on?

Even in an expensive city like Singapore, it’s possible to live on just $1,000 a month. And you won’t have to scrimp excessively either.

You can still enjoy your own private room, feed yourself well, eat out, and travel around the country. Here’s what it’s like to live on $1,000 a month in Singapore.

Your budget might look something like this:

Category of ExpensesBudget (S$)
Rent$500
Utilities$55
Other Household Expenses$40
Groceries$150
Other Living Expenses$29
Transportation$96
Healthcare$130
Total$1,000
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Is $500 a month enough to live on?

As mentioned above, when living on only the bare essentials, you could actually survive on as little as $455 a month.

However, note that it isn’t prudent to live on such a budget indefinitely. Feeding yourself on only $2 a day might lead to you not getting proper nutrients in your body. In addition, you should have insurance, and you should visit a doctor whenever you’re unwell. These aren’t catered for in such a small budget either.

Your budget might look something like this:

CategoryCost
Rent$250
Renters’ Insurance$20
Utilities$50
Household Supplies$20
Groceries$60
Other Living Expenses$5
Transport$50
Healthcare$0
Health Insurance$0
Total$455
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What if I have nowhere to go?

As mentioned, there are actually a fair number of options if you want free housing. Step 3 on living for free goes through all of these options in more detail, but here’s the rundown: For free housing, you can accept a job that offers free housing, house-sit, couch-surf, join the Workaway programme, work on a farm, work in a hostel, stay in a monastery or accept help from family or friends.

If none of these work out, you still might have a few other options:

Homeless shelters – The best way to find the nearest homeless shelter around you is to Google for it. Doing so will help you find websites like this Homeless Shelter Directory, which is limited to America. How long you can stay at the homeless shelter differs from shelter to shelter, but it could be anywhere between a few days to a few months.

Religious organisations – Usually, suggestions to avoid homelessness include seeking help from religious organisations. These include Christian organisations, Buddhist organisations, amongst many other organisations out there. Alternatively, you can go directly to places of worship, such as monasteries, churches and temples. Here’s a story from Singapore on churches and temples taking in the homeless.

Charity organisations – You could also reach out to charity organisations, such as the Salvation Army and various food pantries. They are likely to give you a roof over your head, especially if you volunteer your services to them.

Non-profit organisations – There might be non-profit organisations set up by kind-hearted people in your area. For example, in Singapore, there’s non-profit called Homeless Hearts of Singapore, which raises awareness and helps to house the homeless. Googling around your area for non-profit organisations and reaching out might be an option for you.

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What if I can’t find a job?

If you’re unable to find a job to provide you with free housing, you can still house-sit, couch-surf, join the Workaway programme, work on a farm, work in a hostel, stay in a monastery or accept help from family or friends.

Alternatively, you might turn to homeless shelters, religious, charitable and non-profit organisations for help. You could volunteer your services to them in exchange for a roof over your head.

In the meantime, continue applying for a job. Apply for 10 jobs a day, every day. Apply for even minimum wage ones; these will help you to pad your bank account while you’re searching for something better. In times like this, even a minimum wage job is better than no job.

It’s extremely tough to move out with no money, but you’re tougher. Good luck and take care.

Have you ever had the experience of moving out with no money? Do you know anyone who had to move out with no money? Are there any other tips that might help?

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Did you know that 50% of millennials move back into their parents’ house after college? For the first time in more than a century, living with parents is the most common living arrangement amongst 18-to-34 year olds.

This is unsurprising, considering that moving out isn’t cheap.

How much does it cost to move out? Can you afford to move out? Well, that’s exactly what we explore in this post.

There are many costs associated with moving out. Here’s a brief breakdown of all the financial obligations you might run into.

One-Off Expenses

Moving Costs
Security Deposits
Fees
Furniture and Furnishing

Monthly Expenses

Rent
Renters’ Insurance
Utilities
Other Expenses

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Other Considerations

Debt
Emergency Funds

Let’s get into each category in more detail.

Note: Since I’m from Singapore, many of my examples will be Singapore-based. It is important to keep in mind here that all expenses incurred differ from country to country, state to state, and city to city.

One-Off Expenses

When moving out, you’ll likely run into the following categories of expenses. These will factor into whether you can afford to move out.

1. Moving Costs

This includes renting a van or a truck, and paying for moving supplies (boxes, bubble wrap, packing tape, etc.). In Singapore, this will set you back at least $375, and the breakdown of which has been provided below for easy reference.

 Category  Cost (S$)
 Van Rental  $75 per day
 30 Medium-Sized Boxes  $120
 20 Large-Sized Boxes  $120
 90-Metre Bubble Wrap  $30
 Others (Tape, Scissors, etc.)  $30
 Total  $375

 

Alternatively, you could opt to hire a moving company. This could set you back at least S$500 or more, as you have to fork out more money for services provided, including packing, dismantling, hoisting, etc.

2. Security Deposits

There are a few types of security deposits that you might have to save up for, including the landlord security deposit and the utilities security deposit.

Landlord Security Deposit: You’ll have to put down a security deposit with your landlord of at least 1 month’s rent, although this could be increased to as much as 3 months’ rent. The rule of thumb is that the security deposit amounts to 1 month of rent for a 1-year lease, and scales proportionately.

Utilities Provider Security Deposit: In addition to the security deposit with your landlord, you might also have to put down a security deposit with your utilities provider. In Singapore, this ranges from anywhere between $40 to $400 if you’re a citizen, and double if you’re a foreigner.

Assuming that you’re renting a place for $1,000 a month after moving out, here’s how much you’ll need to fork over in deposits:

 Category  Deposit (S$)
 Landlord Deposit  $1,000 – $3,000
 Utilities Deposit  $40 – $800
 Total  $1,040 – $3,800

3. Fees

There are different fees that you will encounter when you move out and start renting a place of your own:

  • Housing agent fees: This could range from half a month to a full month’s rent.
  • Utilities (such as internet or cable) set-up or connection fees: $50 to $100
  • Rent application fees: $50
  • Background check fees: $50
  • Pet fees: $200 to $500

Assuming that you’re renting a place for $1,000 a month, here’s what potential fees might look like:

 Category  Fees
 Housing Agent Fee  $500 to $1,000
 Set-Up Fee  $50 to $100
 Rent Application Fee  $50
 Background Check Fee  $50
 Pet Fee  $200 to $500
 Total  $850 to $1,700

 

4. Furniture and Furnishing

If your new place comes fully or partially furnished, you might not have to spend as much to make your place liveable.

However, if your new place is unfurnished, there might be a bunch of things that you have to pay for, such as a bed, appliances, a couch, etc.

Assuming that you’re aiming to be as frugal as possible, here are the prices that you can expect to pay for furniture and furnishing. The prices of brand-new furniture are from IKEA, and anything second-hand was sourced from Carousell (Singapore’s largest second-hand online marketplace).

 Category  Cost (S$)
 Sprung Mattress  $99
 Bed Frame  $49
 2-seat Sofa  $119
 Desk  $89
 Swivel Chair  $40
 Shelving Unit  $99
 Dining Table and 4 Chairs  $99
 18 Piece Dinnerware  $40
 2nd-Hand Refrigerator  $300
 2nd-Hand Washer and Dryer  $300
 2nd-Hand Microwave Oven  $40
 2nd-Hand Vacuum Cleaner  $30
 2nd-Hand Iron  $10
 2nd-Hand Kettle  $20
 2nd-Hand Standing Fan  $66
 Total  $1,400

You can afford to move out by buying inexpensive furniture, like this IKEA dining set.

With IKEA, you can buy furniture brand new for a small price tag.

As you can see, the cheaper range of the basic necessities will set you back at least $1,400.

If you choose to spring for slightly higher-end items, or if you rather not buy anything second-hand, you can expect to pay at least $3,000 to $5,000 for the works.

 

Monthly (Recurring) Expenses

In addition to the one-off expenses incurred when moving out, you will also have to pay for all your monthly recurring costs. These are equally important in determining whether you can afford to move out.

If your parents are paying for anything on your behalf when you live with them, you would need to take these expenses into account, as your parents would likely hand over the financial responsibility to you when you move out.

What are some of these expenses?

1. Rent

How can you pay as little rent as possible?

There are a few things you can do to decrease your rent as much as possible, such as:

  • Live in a place far from the city centre; and
  • Bring in roommates.

For example, in Singapore, an expensive city, it’s possible to spend as little as S$250 per month on rent (about US$175) if you’re willing to share a room with 3 other people. (You’d have to get used to bunk beds, too.)

Assuming that you’re in a 3-bedroom apartment, you might have up to 11 other people living with you (4 people in each room). If you don’t mind having lots of roommates, this is a good way to reduce rental expenses.

Here’s what it’s like to have 4 people sharing a single room in Singapore:

4 people using bunk-beds in a single bedroom. By getting more roommates, you can afford to move out and rent inexpensive places like this.

If you’d like to enjoy the privacy of your own room, or even a studio apartment, be prepared to fork out at least 2-4 times that amount.

In addition to bringing in roommates, the further away from the city centre you are, the less you will have to pay for rent.

If you have pets, you might want to take into account the fact that you might have to pay an additional $50 to $100 in pet rent.

Here’s how much you can expect to pay for rent in Singapore after moving out:

 Apartment  Cost (S$)
 Shared bedroom  $250
 Single bedroom  $500
 Studio apartment  $1,500
 Pet Rent  $50 to $100

 

How much should you spend on rent?

There are a few guidelines you can use here, including the 30% rule, or the 50/30/20 rule.

The 30% Rule: This is a common suggestion, where you spend no more than 30% of your gross income on housing expenses – this includes rent, utility bills and other housing fees.

The 50/30/20 Rule: Alternatively, you could use this rule, which suggests that you spend no more than 50% of your take-home pay on necessities (including housing, transportation, food, etc.). 30% is for discretionary expenses, while the remaining 20% is to be saved.

2. Renters’ Insurance

Renters’ insurance ensures that everything you bring into your home as a renter is covered by insurance. Examples of these things include furnishing and furniture we covered above. In the event your personal belongings are wiped out by some act of God, at least you have insurance to rely on.

If you’re thinking that you can rely on your landlord’s home insurance if something unfortunate happens, well, you’re mistaken. Home insurance covers only the structure of the home, not your personal belongings.

As such, it would be best to pick up renters’ insurance. After all, it’s not expensive. In Singapore, it costs only $7 a month. In the U.S., basic renters’ insurance would set you back only about $27 a month.

 

3. Utilities

Utilities includes your power bills (electricity, water and gas) and service provider expenses (internet and mobile plans).

Power Bills

Electricity
Water
Gas

Service Providers

Internet
Mobile
Landline
Cable

Utility bills are usually included in the rent, at least in Singapore.

If it isn’t included in your rent, you will need to account for these expenses separately in your budget.

Here’s how much utilities cost in Singapore, if you want to be as budget as possible:

Power (electricity, water and gas): SP Power, Singapore’s utilities distributor, provided statistics stating that 5-room apartments typically pay $142 for electricity, water and gas. Per room, that’s less than $30 a month.

Internet: $45-$50 per household, as per these prices. Split between 4 people, that’s only about $10 per person.

Mobile: $5 per line, for 50 minutes of calls, 25 text messages, and 2GB of data. A steal, if you ask me. This is the cheapest plan on the market so far. An alternative is pre-paid phone cards.

Here’s the minimum amount that you could pay for utilities in Singapore after you move out of your parents’ house:

 Category  Cost (S$)
 Power  $30
 Internet  $10
 Mobile  $5
 Others (Cable, etc.)  $0
 Total  $45

4. Other Expenses

What are some other expenses that your parents currently pay for? This could be anything, such as:

  1. Health insurance plans – Many parents allow their adult children to ride on their policies, saving costs for their children.
  2. Transportation – You might be using your parents’ car free of charge.
  3. Food – If you have meals with your family, these meals are usually paid for by your parents.

When you move out of your parents’ house, remember to account for all of these expenses that you were not previously paying for.

Here’s how much you can expect to spend on these things if you’re being frugal in Singapore:

 Category   Cost (S$)
 Health Insurance  $50
 Transportation  $100
 Groceries  $150
 Total  $300

Other Considerations

1. Debt

The main reason most people choose to stay with their parents after college is due to student loan debt. The average student loan debt in the U.S. is almost $33,000, which causes many to struggle financially for years. As such, not many can afford to move out.

When you’re living with parents, you likely have lower living expenses (in categories of expenses such as rent and utilities), and therefore more money to repay student loans.

However, after you move out, you will have higher expenses. In which case, do you have enough left over from your take-home salary after paying all your bills, to make repayment on your debt?

Another thing to note is that large amounts of consumer debt (on credit cards or personal loans, etc.) could decrease your credit score and your chances at obtaining a lease. If so, you might want to work on repaying your balances to a manageable level before moving out.

Alternatively, if possible, are you able to pay off all your debt before moving out?

Many can't afford to move out because of student loans.

2. Emergency Funds

This is also important in determining whether you can afford to move out, as unexpected events might occur. For example, you could:

  • Get hurt physically in an accident with a drunk driver.
  • Catch a life-threatening illness in the midst of a pandemic.
  • Lose your job in the middle of a financial crisis.

If so, you would need an emergency fund to tide you through these difficult financial times. Otherwise, you might be booted out of your rented place and have to move back in with your parents.

How much should you have in your emergency fund? Experts usually recommend about 6-9 months of living expenses. If you’re being extra cautious, you could shoot for 12 months.

Recommendations before Moving Out

Being of a cautious nature, I would recommend having the following before you move out:

 

1. Enough savings to pay for all one-off expenses.

How much do these one-off moving out expenses amount to? Assuming that your rent is $1,000 a month, you need to save up anywhere between $3,665 to $11,000 for one-time expenses.

The breakdown of which has been provided here:

CategoryCosts (S$)
Moving Costs$375 - $500
Landlord Security Deposit$1,000 - $3,000
Utilities Provider Security Deposit$40 - $800
Fees (Agent, Set-Up, Pet, etc.)$850 - $1,700
Furniture and Furnishing$1,400 - $5,000
Total$3,665 - $11,000

2. A stable income that is sufficient to pay all bills and allows you to save.

Your income should be able to pay for all recurring monthly expenses when living on your own after moving out, with enough left over for savings towards a financial goal (like retirement).

My recommendation is that you should be able to save at least $500 a month toward your retirement. This will allow you to retire with $1,000,000 after a 40-year career.

For example, if you spend $1,500 a month while living on your own, you should target to have a take-home salary of at least $2,000 a month before moving out. The gap between your take-home salary and your monthly spending will then provide you with the $500 you need to save for retirement.

If you foresee yourself struggling to pay your bills, it may be the case that you can’t afford to move out yet. If you do, you might find yourself living paycheck to paycheck, which is incredibly stressful.

 Take-Home Salary  $2,000
 Less: Expenses  ($1,500)
 Savings  $500

 

3. No student loan debt, if possible.

When living with parents, you would have lower living expenses, allowing you to make maximum payments towards your student loan debts.

If you make a take-home salary of $2,000 while spending just $1,000 a month, you could repay $12,000 of your student loans in a single year ($1,000 savings per month x 12 months). Assuming you have the average $33,000 student loan debt, you could pay off your entire debt in just 3 years.

A monthly $1K repayment on a $33K loan over 3 years. Before you consider yourself being able to afford to move out, pay off student loans.

Check out this story of a millennial who paid off her $33,000 student loan debt in 2.5 years on a $37,000 salary. One of the ways she saved money was moving back in with her parents.

 

4. An emergency fund containing 6 to 12 months of living expenses.

For example, if you spend $2,000 a month (or $24,000 a year), your 12-month emergency fund should contain $24,000 in cold, hard cash. This will allow some breathing room in the budget should anything unforeseen happen.

Alternatively, you could aim for just a 6-month emergency fund of $12,000 if you want to drastically cut down your timeline towards affording moving out.

 

Ultimately though, it depends on your situation at home.

If you’re experiencing a toxic situation at home, you might want to simply save up for just the one-time moving expenses and ensure that you have a stable income before moving out. In this case, it might not be prudent for you to wait until you’re done paying off student loans to move out.

On the other hand, if your situation at home is good, you might want to follow the 4 recommendations that I listed above before considering yourself being able to afford to move out. This will ensure that your moving out process is smooth and can weather unexpected turn of events.

Other Questions to Think About

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Do you make enough money to be able to afford to move out?

How much money you should make is completely dependent on your expenses. If you’re able to live a frugal lifestyle, you don’t need to make a lot of money before you’re able to afford to move out.

For example, if you’re able to spend just $1,000 a month while living on your own, which is difficult but not impossible even in expensive cities like Singapore, you will be able to get by even if you made a minimum wage.

Ideally, as I mentioned above earlier, you should be able to save at least $500 a month toward your retirement. This will allow you to retire as a millionaire after a 40-year career.

Does your take-home salary cover all of your expenses and allow you to save at least $500 a month? If so, then you should be making enough money to afford to move out.

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Is your income/job stable?

There are a few things that you might want to consider when determining whether you can afford to move out:

  • Are you a permanent employee of your company, with a regular paycheck?
  • Do you enjoy (or at least tolerate) your job?

A regular paycheck is important, as this will allow you to pay off your monthly expenses with ease. If your income is erratic, and you find yourself constantly worrying about how you’re going to be able to pay your bills, you might want to wait until you have a stable job or income before you move out.

You also need to be able to tolerate and hold down a stable job in order to pay the bills. If your job makes you miserable every day, and you want nothing more than to quit to maintain your sanity, then you may want to find another job quick before moving out.

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How much should you save before moving out?

You should be able to afford all of your one-time moving out expenses, as well as save up an emergency fund containing 6 to 12 months of living expenses (including rent, renters’ insurance, utilities, etc.).

These are the basic necessities. If you’re not able to afford these costs, you might not be able to afford to move out.

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How much does it cost to live on your own per month?

This differs from country to country, and even from state to state.

For example, in Singapore, I can expect to spend $1,330 to $2,500 a month while living on my own. A complete breakdown of all the expenses has been provided in this post here.

For your ease of reference, here’s a breakdown of all my expenses after moving out:

CategoryAmount (S$)
Rent/Mortgage$700 - $1,500
Utilities $150 - $200
Necessities$50
Food (Groceries and Dining Out)$200 - $250
Transport$80 - $100
Medical $50 - $100
Travel $50 - $200
Miscellaneous$50 - $100
Total$1,330 - $2,500
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How little could you spend when living on your own?

Again, this differs from country to country, and even from state to state.

In Singapore, you can live on as little as $1,000 a month. A complete breakdown of all the expenses has been provided in this post here.

For your ease of reference, here’s a breakdown of all the expenses:

Category of ExpensesBudget (S$)
Rent$500
Utilities$55
Other Household Expenses$40
Groceries$150
Other Living Expenses$29
Transportation$96
Healthcare$130
Total$1,000
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Is $10,000 enough to be able to afford to move out?

Yes, of course, provided that your one-off expenses (moving costs, deposits, fees and furniture) don’t exceed $4,000, and your monthly living expenses don’t exceed $1,000 a month. 

In other words, if your one-off expenses amount to $4,000, that leaves you with an emergency fund of $6,000 ($10,000 less $4,000), which is supposed to cover at least 6 months of living expenses.

Ultimately, the math boils down to your personal financial situation. If your one-off expenses are low, you can afford to spend more on monthly living expenses, and vice versa.

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I can't afford to move out. How can I move out of my parents' house with no money?

Can’t afford to move out? Don’t have any money, but you desperately need to move out? That’s not as big a deal as you might imagine.

This blog also provides a great guide on exactly how to move out with no money at all. You could have $0 right now, and still move out in a matter of days or weeks. Check out the ultimate 4-step guide to moving out with no money right here.

Summary (TL;DR)

Moving out isn’t cheap.

  • There are many one-off moving out expenses that you will incur (moving costs, security deposits, fees, furniture and furnishing), which would set you back at least $3,500.
  • On top of that, you will have monthly bills that you might have never paid for before (rent, renters’ insurance, utilities, etc.), which would set you back at least another $500 to $1,000 monthly.
  • This results in less savings and less debt pay-off.

As such, if you are able to tolerate living at home, I would recommend first having the following, before you decide that you can afford to move out:

  1. Enough savings to pay for all one-off expenses.
  2. A stable income (as a permanent employee with a regular paycheck) that is sufficient to pay for all monthly bills and allows you to save as well.
  3. No student loan debt, if possible.
  4. An emergency fund containing 6 to 12 months of living expenses.

After you move out, continue to be frugal. It’s possible to spend just $1,000 to $2,000 a month in an expensive city.

Save at least $500 a month. More, if you can. This will ensure that your larger financial goals, such as retirement, are being taken care of.

How much does moving out cost in your country? What would you recommend to someone who wants to move out soon?

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For many years now, I’ve always challenged myself to see how little I can live on. After all, the less I can live on, the sooner I can retire and quit my corporate job, right?

So, let’s see if we can live in Singapore for as little as $1,000 a month. Not going to lie, it’s going to be very tight, but let’s make it work.

Note:

1. This budget is based on an able-bodied (regular medical costs, no exorbitant medical expenses), single person with no partner (no efficiencies), no kids (no childcare expenses), and financially-independent parents (no parent care expenses).

2. All currency in this post is in Singapore dollars (S$).

What a Budget of $1,000 a Month Looks Like

Category of ExpensesBudget (S$)
Rent$500
Utilities$55
Other Household Expenses$40
Groceries$150
Other Living Expenses$29
Transportation$96
Healthcare$130
Total$1,000

Here’s a more detailed breakdown of these expenses, for those interested:

Household Expenses:

Rent: $500
Utilities: $55
Maintenance/Fees: $20
Supplies: $20

Total: $595

Living Expenses:

Transportation: $96
Groceries: $150
Dining Out: $15
Personal Care: $10
Hairdressing: $4

Total: $275

Healthcare:

Hospitalisation Insurance: $50
Medication: $10
Doctor: $10
Dental: $10
Others/Specialist: $50

Total: $130

And now, let’s get into each category in detail.

Rent – $500 per Month

Singapore isn’t the world’s most affordable country, and housing in Singapore can be extremely pricey. Here’s a quick look at what the rental situation is like in Singapore.

By way of a short introduction, in Singapore, there’s private housing (landed properties and private condominium apartments) and public housing. With a budget of at most $500 a month, the only option available is public housing.

If you don’t mind living extremely frugally, you could get a single bed in a shared bedroom in a public housing apartment for anywhere between $200 to $300 a month. Each bedroom is typically shared between 4 guests. In a single apartment, you could have up to 11 other roommates (assuming 3 bedrooms and 4 people in each bedroom).

A bed in a typical 4-person bedroom costing $250 per month looks something like this.

Singapore Rent $250 per Month

Not too bad, but privacy certainly is an issue.

If privacy is a priority, and having at least the entire bedroom to yourself is important, then renting an entire room in the shared public housing apartment can set you back anywhere between $500 to $1,000.

For $500 a month, you could get a room that looks like this (I lucked out and found a pretty decent one at $500 a month, utilities included):

Singapore Rent $500 per Month

Bear in mind that the locations of all these cheaper apartments are generally not great. It’ll easily take an hour or so to get from these apartments to the central business district. That’s 2 hours, both ways. Could take longer as well.

If you’re interested in checking out other properties in Singapore, you can visit PropertyGuru, one of the largest online portals for properties in Singapore.

Utilities – $55 per Month

As I was checking through the property listings for $500-per-month rooms, I discovered that the $500 per month rental usually includes utility fees. For example, both the rooms I showed above had utility fees included. 

Otherwise, utility fees were typically listed as about $50 per month, to cover internet, electricity and water usage (unfortunately, with this budget, air conditioning is out of the question). A cheap mobile plan will run you another $5 per month.

Here’s how much utilities cost in Singapore, if you want to be as budget as possible:

Internet: $45-$50 per household, as per these Singtel prices. This is usually included in the rent, so you don’t have to worry about it.

Mobile: $5 per line, for 50 minutes of calls, 25 text messages, and 2GB of data. A steal, if you ask me. This is the cheapest plan on the market so far. An alternative is pre-paid phone cards.

Electricity, water and gas: SP Power, Singapore’s utilities distributor, provided statistics stating that 5-room apartments typically pay $142 for electricity, water and gas. Per room, that’s less than $30 a month.

 

Other Household Expenses – $40 per Month

All the other household expenses consist of the following:

  • Maintenance/Fees: $20
  • Supplies: $20

Maintenance: All residents in apartments in Singapore, whether private or public, are required to pay maintenance fees for maintenance of the estate. $20 should be a fair estimate for these fees, although usually these fees are built directly into the rent.

Household supplies: For household supplies, it would be best to buy in bulk (whenever possible) and go for generic brands. When buying only the essentials, a budget of $20 a month should be able to cover everything you need.

Groceries – $150 per Month

With just $150 a month, a budget for each 3-meal day could look something like this:

 Daily Meal  Cost (S$)
 Breakfast  $0.50
 Lunch  $2
 Dinner  $2.50
 Total Per Day  $5

With a budget of $5 per day, the total monthly budget would come up to $150 ($5 per day x 30 days).

Although a budget of $150 a month isn’t a lot, there’s no need to go hungry either.

Homemade Chilli

Homemade chilli, $2.30 per serving.

For breakfast, you could have 2 eggs, which would set you back $0.36. (Each egg costs $0.18.)

For lunch, you could have a grilled chicken and cheese sandwich, which would set you back $1.68.

  • Assuming 50% of the chicken is edible meat, 100 grams of chicken would cost $1.06.
  • 2 slices of bread would cost $0.18. (19 slices cost $1.75)
  • 2 slices of cheesewould cost $0.44. (36 slices cost $7.95)
Grilled Chicken and Cheese Price

For dinner, you could have a beef bolognese pasta, where the main ingredients would set you back $2.58.

  • 100 grams of beef would cost $1.17.
  • 100 grams of pasta would cost $0.70.
  • 150 grams of diced tomatoes would cost $0.71.
Beef Bolognese Price

All 3 meals cost just $4.62.

Note that the prices above were all taken from the website of NTUC FairPrice, which isn’t the cheapest supermarket around (although they happen to have one of the most user-friendly websites). If you shop at cheaper supermarkets, such as Sheng Siong, or if you don’t mind going to wet markets, you could shave at least another 10-20% off your grocery bill.

The above shows that you can have a balanced diet on a monthly grocery budget of $150. 

To keep grocery costs as low as possible, buy more staples (like oatmeal and beans), vegetables, and eggs (a cheaper source of protein than meat).

On the other hand, junk food (like chips and sweet drinks) is to be avoided at all costs.

Dining Out – $15 per Month

In case you need the occasional treat, or are simply pressed for time, you could eat out anywhere between 1 to 4 times a month with just $15, depending on where you go for your meals.

At cheaper-end restaurants, you could get away with paying just $10 per meal. On the other hand, if you confine yourself to hawker centres, you could pay just $4 per meal.

A handy tip for dining out is knowing the best deals around. I highly recommend the online platforms Chope and Shopee, and I’ve scored numerous deals on both of them. Check out the scrumptuous dishes that I got for just $1:

Katong Laksa

Katong Laksa, for $1.

Poke Bowl

A poke bowl, for $1.

Cluck Cluck Cafe

Fried chicken with numerous sides, for $1.

Other Living Expenses – $14 per Month

As listed above, other living expenses consist of the following:

  • Personal Care: $10
  • Hairdressing: $4

Personal Care: Similar to household supplies, a budget of $10 a month should be sufficient when buying only the essentials, in bulk, and only generic brands.

Hairdressing: An option here is to cut your own hair, which will cost nothing. Alternatively, you could visit cheap but good hairdressers. Personally, I pay $18 per haircut, and I visit my hairdresser only twice a year. That’s $36 a year, or just $3 a month.

Transportation – $96 per Month

Taking a cab in Singapore isn’t cheap, and can cost you anywhere between $10 to $20 for a 20-minute ride. Meanwhile, buying a car in Singapore is outrageously expensive, with the cheapest model setting you back a whopping $62,000.

As such, when working with a $1,000 a month budget, the only option you have is public transportation. Thankfully, in stark contrast to private transportation (cars and cabs), public transportation in Singapore is comfortingly cheap.

Taking a subway ride from the west-most side of Singapore to the east-most side of Singapore will cost you $2.17. North to south will cost $2.05. Chances are, you will spend less than this to get to where you need to go.

For $96 a month, you can take the following trips:

 Day  Cost  Destination
 Mon  $2 x 2  Office, Home
 Tues  $2 x 2  Office, Home
 Wed  $2 x 2  Office, Home
 Thurs  $2 x 2  Office, Home
 Fri  $2 x 2  Office, Home
 Sat  $2 x 2  Town, Home
 Sun  $0  (Stay Home)

Total cost per week is therefore $24 ($4 per day x 6 days). Assuming a 4-week month, each month will result in spending of $96 ($24 per week x 4 weeks).

Insurance – $50 per Month

In the beginning of this post, we made a few assumptions:

  • That you will be renting (no house, so no home insurance).
  • That you have no dependents (so no need for whole life or term life insurance).

The only thing you might need is hospitalisation insurance, the cost of which will depend on your age.

Sometime in 2018, I was thinking of picking up full-coverage hospitalisation insurance, so I had a few discussions with an agent from Prudential. Below is a table containing the cost of hospitalisation insurance for foreigners, on the cheapest possible policy. (Singaporeans and Singapore Permanent Residents enjoy slightly cheaper rates.)

Table of Insurance Premiums

At a yearly cost of $378 for someone between the ages of 21 to 30 years old, this breaks down to $31.50 a month. This increases to $573 a year for someone between the ages of 31 to 40, which breaks down to $48 a month. The premiums increase exponentially as age increases, making it incredibly difficult to adhere to the budget of just $1,000 a month.

Medical Services – $80 per Month

As listed above, medical services expenses consist of the following:

  • Medication: $10
  • Doctor: $10
  • Dental: $10
  • Others (like specialist treatment): $50

If you’re reasonably young and in the pink of health, you might not even need monthly medication, doctor consultation fees or specialist consultation fees.

However, you might still want to visit the dentist every 6-9 months for scaling and polishing, and this can cost as little as $60 per visit. Therefore, a budget of $10 a month for this category of expense is sufficient.

Alternatively, you could spend nothing at all on this entire category of medical services, including dental, like Mr Money Mustache.

What About Discretionary Expenses?

How Far Does $15 Go?

You might have noticed that there isn’t much room in the budget for many discretionary expenses, like entertainment and alcohol. Currently, only $15 has been allocated to dining out.

Instead of dining out, you could choose to spend this money on things that are more important to you. What other paid activities can you do with $15?

You could:

Thankfully, once your discretionary budget of $15 per month has been used up, there are many other things that you can do in Singapore, at no cost at all.

Jewel Canopy Park

The Canopy Park in Jewel Changi Airport. Insanely beautiful, and well worth the $4.50 fee.

What Can You Enjoy for Free in Singapore?

There are many things you could do for free. For example, you could:

  • Visit cultural sites (like Chinatown, Little India and Kampong Glam).
  • Visit nature sites and parks (like reservoirs, Botanic Gardens, Fort Canning Park, and Sungei Buloh Wetland Reserve).
  • Stargaze at the Science Centre (it’s free every Friday).
  • Get scared at a spooky but free theme park.
  • Sunbathe in nice beaches (like at East Coast Park).
  • Enjoy free concerts at the Esplanade.
  • Watch free outdoor movie screenings by the beach in Sentosa, amongst other places.
  • Enjoy free light shows near Marina Bay Sands and the Central Business District.
  • Borrow free books and movies from the libraries.

There are plenty of free options for you in Singapore without having to spend a dime, and that’s just one of the reasons I consider myself so fortunate to be born into this country.

Fort Canning Park

Taking a walk through Fort Canning Park. Free.

People Who Actually Live on $1,000 a Month in Singapore

I came across the most interesting Quora thread with people who live on extremely small budgets in Singapore, but seem plenty happy anyway. For ease of reference, here are some people who live on around $1,000 a month, along with breakdowns of their budgets.

Quora User: Daniel Tay
Other Details: Retired before 40

 Category  Amount (S$)
 Mortgage  $475
 Insurance  $200
 Food*  $0
 Utilities  $25
 Housing Fees  $25
 Home-Cleaning  $50
 Pets  $50
 Transport  $60
 Mobile  $28
 Internet  $15
 Clothes  $0
 Total  $928

*The Quora user, Daniel, dumpster dives for food.

Quora User: Jinghang Wu
Other Details: Lives with Dad

 Category  Amount (S$)
 Food*  $900
 Transport  $80
 Internet and Mobile  $100
 Parents  $300
 Healthcare, Grooming  $200
 Miscellaneous  $100
 Total (Excluding Food)  $780

*I excluded food expenditure from the budget, because $900 on food alone will skew the total budget. The Quora user, Jinghang, did say that he eats out at a lot of restaurants.

Quora User: Achelle Go
Other Details: – 

 Category  Amount (S$)
 Rent  $500
 Food*  $400
 Utilities**  $100
 Transport  $100
 Total  $1,100

*Food includes the occasional bar/restaurant/cafe.

**Utilities includes mobile phone plans.

Conclusion – Is it Possible to Live in Singapore on $1,000 a Month?

It certainly is possible to live in Singapore on just $1,000 a month, though it does come with a few obvious sacrifices, such as:

  • Living as minimally as possible, with close to no frills in the budget;
  • Being willing to do things that others won’t (a good example of this is dumpster diving. Our helplful Quora user, Daniel Tay, spends $0 on food each month by dumpster diving, amongst other things.)

However, for a great many of us, a budget of $1,000 a month simply won’t be enough. As you saw above, almost the entire budget has been deployed only to essential expenses, such as:

  • Rent,
  • Household expenses,
  • Groceries,
  • Living expenses,
  • Public transportation,
  • Insurance, and
  • Medical services.

What’s leftover after this? Not much.

There’s close to nothing leftover to spend on other things that you may find important in life (that are arguably discretionary), such as:

  • Self-improvement. Though Singapore’s libraries are fantastic places to learn new things, you may be able to find better niche-specific content elsewhere, such as in online courses, in-person classes, part-time or even full-time degrees. All of these don’t run cheap.
  • Passion projects. Most passion projects cost a little money to start up. For example, this blog costs more than $20 a month for just hosting. It’s hard to afford even this on a tight $1,000 a month budget. If you’re interested in learning a musical instrument, buying it will set you back a few hundred bucks.
  • Travel. While there are many free things that you can do in Singapore, travelling out of the country will certainly cost money. Even travelling to Johor Bahru, Malaysia by bus or train will set you back at least $2 to $5. And that’s already as cheap as you could possibly go.
Dollar Beer in Cambodia

Enjoying $2 beer in a fancy bar in Cambodia. Even a budget plane flight from Singapore to Cambodia would cost at least $200.

In addition to that, there won’t be enough to spend on other things that you might find necessary in life, such as:

  • Healthcare: Insurance premiums increase exponentially as you age. For example, from the table provided above, once you hit 70 years of age, insurance premiums will total almost $300 per month. You’d also likely visit doctors more often, as health in old age rapidly deteriorates.
  • Starting a family. If having kids is a possibility in the future, this would surely increase your expenses in all categories across the board. For example, you’d need a bigger living space to cater for a family. You’d also need to buy powdered milk or food. You can expect to shell out anywhere between $7,000 to $17,500 per year, per child, depending on the age of your child.

All that being said, living on just $1,000 a month in Singapore for the long-term isn’t all that feasible.

Yes, admittedly, it is a huge privilege just being able to afford all your necessities

Homelessness

Homelessness.

Additionally, it is a huge blessing to be able to afford all necessities of life on just $1,000 a month, as this opens a lot of options for many people. For example, if you’re relatively young, healthy, if you’ve just quit your job to take some time off, to prepare for a career change, living on $1,000 a month as a temporary sacrifice is a good thing. You’d have a roof over your head and warm food on the table. It’s not a bad life at all.

However, if you have the option to shoot for more, then go for it. By increasing your budget by a mere $400 per month, you might see a whole world of difference.

In fact, that’s exactly what I plan to do myself

Is it possible to live on $1,000 a month in your country? Would you consider this a lifestyle, or more of a temporary measure? Would love to hear your thoughts!

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I’m going to admit it right off the bat – I love eating out.

There’s something exciting about going to eateries to try out delicious new cuisines and styles of cooking. And there’s something even more thrilling about scoring awesome, eye-popping, mouth-watering food deals.

In 2019, I ate out a lot.

176 times, not to be specific or anything.

That’s like eating out every other day.

At the beginning of the year, as I always do, I set myself a budget of $50 a month to eat out. I didn’t meet this. I wasn’t even close.

As a fun little exercise, I decided to see how much I spent on eating out and how much value I got out of it.

And without further ado, here are some interesting statistics of my eating out habit in 2019.

Interesting Statistics

Expenditure and Number of Eateries, by Month

MonthAmount Spent (S$)No. of Eateries
Jan-2019$81.609
Feb-2019$68.709
Mar-2019$186.7021
Apr-2019$124.6014
May-2019$163.4014
Jun-2019$147.5011
Jul-2019$117.4512
Aug-2019$90.7011
Sep-2019$111.3014
Oct-2019$137.5018
Nov-2019$187.4024
Dec-2019$25619
Yearly Total$1,673176

Yearly Total Spent: $1,673 (or $140 a month)

Number of Eateries: 176 (or 14.7 times a month, yikes)

The year started off with my spending being more tame. I spent less than $100 a month, and went out to eat less than 10 times a month, for January and February.

In March, I discovered F&B deals on various money-saving apps (the irony of it all), and went all out trying to buy as many deals as possible (face palm).

I reigned this in a little in April, after discovering I was eating myself sick. It worked for a while, and I made incremental progress in spending less every month, until August.

However, nearing the end of the year, shit hit the ceiling at my corporate job. The situation was already bad before this, but everything got worse after. As such, I chose comfort eating as a way to cope with the negative, unhealthy feelings I was experiencing. This resulted in the spike in my spending on eating out.

Buying Food Deals

Exciting food deals that I bought back in 2019.

Price Per Meal Distribution

The average price that I paid per meal was $9.50 ($1,673 divided by 176), which doesn’t seem too exorbitant.

Here’s the price per meal distribution:

 Price Per Meal  No. of Meals
 $1 ≤ Meal < $10  120
 $10 ≤ Meal < $20  40
 $20 ≤ Meal < $30  15
 $30 ≤ Meal  1

 

The cheapest meal I had was a $1 lobster roll + lobster bisque + cassava chips + drink meal (that I snagged on promotion), while my most expensive meal set me back $37 for a shabu shabu all-you-can-eat buffet at a pretty fancy Japanese restaurant (no promotion, just walked into a fancy restaurant after a difficult day at work).

Lobster Roll

The $1 cheesy lobster roll.

Shabu Shabu

The $37 all-you-can-eat shabu shabu buffet.

Type of Establishment Distribution

I split up all the eateries I went to into:

  1. Restaurants and cafes;
  2. Fast food joints; and
  3. Hawker centres and food courts.

Hawker Centres

Hawker centres are open-air complexes that are common in a few Southeast Asian countries, Singapore being one of them. There are dozens of stores in a single complex, with common eating areas. Food here can cost as little as $2, and rarely costs more than $6.

Food Courts

Food courts, on the other hand, are air-conditioned complexes that have fewer stores (but also feature common eating areas). Food here is more pricey, ranging from $4 to $8.

For eating out, hawker centres, followed by food courts, are the cheapest options in Singapore.

Fast Food Joints

I put fast food joints on a more expensive tier because I find them to be slightly more pricey than food courts. Apart from value meals that cost maybe $5-$6 (my favourite value meal provider being Burger King), other meals may set you back anywhere between $8 to $10.

Restaurants and Cafes

And last but certainly not least, there are restaurants and cafes, guilty of very successfully making me part with most of my eating out budget. Not all restaurants are fancy and expensive though, and I’m usually quite careful not to spend too much.

Here’s the type of establishment distribution:

 Type of Establishment  Visited
 Restaurants, cafes  109 times
 Fast food joints  47 times
 Hawker centres, food courts  20 times

 

My Thoughts

Judging from both the (a) price per meal and (b) type of establishment distributions, I’d say that about 50% of my restaurant and cafe meals cost less than $10. That’s the power of being on top of all the best deals in town – you always know where to go for a cheap yet delicious dinner.

I’m also realising that I love restaurants (of course, cheap ones) more than I’d ever love hawker centres, despite there being a drastic difference in price.

Restaurants are quieter, and more private. This provides me with a great deal of comfort. Hawker centres, on the other hand, are noisier and much hotter. For an emotional eater like me, hawker centres aren’t where I want to be for lunch or a long day after work. A few dollars of difference can really go a long way.

 

Pleasant Surprises

When going to restaurants for the first time, you can never predict how the food and ambience is really like, despite reading all the reviews you can find on Google. I experienced this as well. And today, I’ll share with you the biggest surprises and disappointments of my 2019 food adventure. I’ll start off with the great experiences I had.

Name of Establishment: Cluck Cluck

Type of Establishment: Cafe

Cuisine Type: Western

Amount I Paid: $1
Usual Promotion Price: $7.50
Usual Price (No Promos): $15

I first came across this eatery when my favourite restaurant money-saving app, Chope, during a 1-minute flash sale, offered a $15 voucher to this restaurant for the price of just $1. It was one of the best value-for-money dollars I spent the entire year.

For just $1, I got a huge, mouth-watering piece of fried chicken, 4 sides (I chose coleslaw, corn, onion rings, and cauliflower), and truffle sauce. The usual price of this is $14.80.

Right now, during the lockdown, this cafe is temporarily closed. However, hopefully after the lockdown ends, the usual promotion of 50% during off-peak hours will still continue.

Cluck Cluck Cafe

Having breakfast at 11 a.m. on a weekday morning. That’s one of the off-peak periods, so I scored the above meal for 50% off. Paid just $7.50 for everything.

Name of Establishment: Marugame

Type of Establishment: Restaurant

Cuisine Type: Japanese

Amount I Paid: $7.50
Usual Promotion Price: $7.50
Usual Price (No Promos): ~$12

I came across this eatery on another money-saving app, Fave, where $7.50 can get you a piping hot bowl of udon, a crispy chicken skewer, and a drink of barley. The best part of this deal is that it can be used at any time of day. No condition regarding off-peak hours or anything like that.

I love this restaurant because the staff is efficient, and the ambience reminds me so much of Japan.

This establishment has various locations in Singapore, and my favourite one is in Bedok, where it’s quiet and can make for a great place to study/work/chill/catch up with friends for long periods of time, especially during off-peak periods.

Marugame Udon

A delicious bowl of udon. Apologies that I didn’t get a picture of the side of fried chicken. 

Name of Establishment: Yellow Cube by 328 Katong Laksa

Type of Establishment: Food Court

Cuisine Type: Peranakan

Amount I Paid: $1
Usual Promotion Price: $4
Usual Price (No Promos): $5 to $6

I came across this Katong Laksa establishment via Chope’s $1 flash deals. For those unfamiliar with Katong Laksa, all you need to know is that it’s the best kind of laksa around. 

Yellow Cube is generous with their ingredients (prawns, fishcake, and cockles), and the broth is thick and delicious. The spice didn’t sit very well with my stomach, giving me a little uncomfortableness for a while, but it was so worth it. That’s how good it is.

Chope still offers vouchers for this laksa at $4 for a small serving, and $5.50 for a large.

Katong Laksa

The best laksa around. I’ve already frequented this eatery at least 5 times.

While I enjoyed many wonderful experiences eating out for a small price in 2019, it would take me too much time to list out all of them, so I’ll just leave you with the above 3.

 

Big Disappointments

While I had many pleasant surprises, I also had my fair share of disappointments. Even my favourite deal-hunting apps can sometimes recommend disappointing places, but at least I know better next time. 🙂

Name of Establishment: Window on the Park

Type of Establishment: Restaurant

Cuisine Type: Mixed (Buffet)

Amount I Paid: $30
Usual Promotion Price: ~$40
Usual Price (No Promos): $45 to $50

The biggest letdown was the buffet at Window on the Park, which set me back $30 (and that’s with the discount! I think the usual price is close to $45-$50).

With that kind of price, and a Google rating of 3.6, you’d expect something of at least a decent quality.

However, the food selection was sad, and it seemed like they prepared the cheapest possible food items. To top it all off, the place was noisy and cramped. I got seated in between a wall and another table that was just 20cm away.

You’d be much better off eating at a hawker centre, which is cheaper, and of better quality.

Window on the Park

The meal pictured above is called Kueh Pie Tee, can be found in many hawker centres around Singapore, for just $2. 

Name of Establishment: Food Exchange

Type of Establishment: Restaurant

Cuisine Type: Mixed (Buffet)

Amount I Paid: $30
Usual Promotion Price: ~$40
Usual Price: $60

This was also another buffet recommended by my favourite money-saving app. Although the food was significantly better than the previous buffet, I still don’t think it’s worth the $30 price tag. (The usual price is $60!)

What I did love about the place was its ambience. There weren’t many people around, and the restaurant is in a quiet part of town with lots of greenery. It was nice to just sit in the restaurant and chill, staring out into the distance. A huge thumbs up is deserved here.

Although the food wasn’t that great, I might still go back if I’m feeling flushed, and want to spend the day in a quiet, stress-free place.

Food Exchange

I definitely love the ambience of the restaurant, so I wouldn’t consider this place that big a disappointment. The picture doesn’t do the ambience justice.

Lessons Learnt 

Looking back, I realise that having a job I was miserable in led to a lot of excess spending. Because I hated going into work each day, my only source of excitement was in looking for daily food deals. Each time I camped in-app for a deal, a wave of dopamine would rush over me, allowing me to feel something other than misery while at work.  

I also thought that I wouldn’t fall for lifestyle inflation, but it looks like it certainly crept up on me. In 2019, I made a total gross salary of $54,000, in Singapore dollars. Although it’s not a lot of money, it was still $6,000 more than I had made in 2018, and made me feel like I had a lot more disposable income than I thought. Left unchecked, even a self-proclaimed frugal person like myself became a victim of lifestyle inflation.

Another important lesson I learnt is that more expensive doesn’t always mean better. The price tag is not the sole indicator of an item’s quality. Some of the more expensive meals I had in 2019 were unmemorable, sometimes even regrettable (like the buffet at Window on the Park). On the other hand, because I had such low expectations of meals that were priced more cheaply, they surpassed my expectations and left me craving for more.

One last thing I learnt is that all-you-can-eat buffet meals can be damaging both financially and physically. The price tag for such meals are typically higher, as you’re allowed to eat all you want over a wide selection of food. This resulted in me wanting to eat more to get my fill, to make my money worth the while, even though the food was sub-par. Wasted calories, if you ask me. Needless to say, I probably won’t be going for too many buffets from now onwards.

Poke Theory

Another $1 meal that I had – A delicious, healthy poke bowl.

Plans going Forward

In early-2020, I transitioned from full-time work to part-time work. This has resulted in a 40% pay-cut, and I take home no more than $1,750 a month in Singapore dollars from my office job. This doesn’t give me a lot of disposable income to blow, and I’d like to cap my eating out expenditure to at $50 a month. 

The rest of the time, my girlfriend and I will be cooking our meals at home and trying out new recipes that don’t break the bank.

I still find deal-hunting great fun, and would like to keep that in my life. However, I’ll be limiting the amount of time I spend deal-hunting, as my priority for the year is to work on this blog. In addition, I’d most likely buy deals that cost less than $10 per person, as something like $30 seems a little exorbitant considering I don’t earn a lot of money.

I’m already looking forward to posting my food adventures on this blog, as well as seeing my food expenditure for 2020 and reflecting on how I have improved. ?

Cooking Shakshuka at Home

Cooking Shakshuka at my girlfriend’s.

Is eating out in your country more expensive? What do you think of my eating out habit?

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Previously, I wrote a post detailing my monthly income and expenses. Since I’m still living with my parents, although I give them money for rent, my expenses are still incredibly low. I then wondered about my expenses when I move out, and this piqued my interest enough to research and write this post about it.

Note: All currency stated in this post is in Singapore dollars (S$).

 

Living with Parents vs. Living Alone – A Complete Breakdown of Expenditure

Living with parents usually does come with financial benefits. I have to admit, I have significantly lower expenses because I’m still living in my parents’ house.

Here’s a quick snapshot of my current average monthly expenses while living with parents:

CategoryAmount (S$)
Rent (Paid to Family)$400
Utilities$35
Necessities$50
Food (Groceries and Dining Out)$100 - $150
Transport$60 - $90
Medical$50 - $100
Travel$0
Miscellaneous$30 - $50
Total$725 - $875

If I were living alone, my monthly expenses would probably look more like this:

CategoryAmount (S$)
Rent/Mortgage$700 - $1,500
Utilities $150 - $200
Necessities$50
Food (Groceries and Dining Out)$200 - $250
Transport$80 - $100
Medical $50 - $100
Travel $50 - $200
Miscellaneous$50 - $100
Total$1,330 - $2,500

This is essentially double or triple what I’m spending now, depending on my lifestyle choices.

 

Rent

Rent – Living with Parents: S$400
Rent – Living Alone: S$700
Mortgage – Living Alone: S$1,500

Rent – Living with Parents: S$400

I currently give my parents S$200 and my grandparents S$200 every month; I’ve logged this expense as “rent”.

It is deemed as filial for children of Asian cultures to distribute a percentage of their monthly paychecks to support their parents. It makes them happy and gives them “face”, no matter the amount. (Of course, it can’t be too nominal. S$10 just wouldn’t cut it!)

 

Rent – Living Alone: S$700

If I were living on my own, and if I were to go incredibly budget, I might be able to snag my own lodging for just S$400 to S$500 a month. If I were to split this with my girlfriend, we would have to pay only S$200 to S$250 a month each. Of course, this entails:

  • Living in a public housing single bedroom;
  • Having to share the bathroom, kitchen and living areas with at least 4 to 5 roommates; and
  • Living in an obscure, inconvenient part of Singapore, far away from the city centre and workplaces.

However, now that my girlfriend and I have been pursuing FIRE for about 2 to 3 years, amassing a not-insignificant amount of net worth between the both of us, I don’t think we see the need to go that budget.

Something more our speed would be a studio apartment in a cozy condominium complex. This ensures that we have:

  • Privacy without roommates; and
  • Access to all the amenities of the condo, such as pools and gyms.

Both of these are very important to us.

A sacrifice on our end is that we have to live in an obscure, inconvenient part of Singapore that is far away from the city centre. This ensures that we live comfortably, with the occasional luxury, and yet doesn’t break the bank.

This would set us back anywhere between S$900 – S$1,400 for a couple, or S$450 – S$700 for each person.

Living Alone Rent

S$900 can get a 150-square-foot place, whereas S$1,400 can get a 350-square-foot place.

Mortgage – Living Alone: S$1,500

Another option that we have been considering is buying our own apartment. Since my girlfriend comes with her mom and her sister in tow (she takes really good care of her family), the smallest apartment we can purchase would therefore be a 3-bedroom one.

The area that we are looking at (which is again, in a location far away from the city centre) would run us anywhere between S$1 million to S$1.2 million for a 3-bedroom apartment. After a downpayment of 25%, we’re looking at an outstanding mortgage of about S$750K at an interest rate of 1.8% over 25 years.

This means a monthly repayment of approximately S$3,100 per couple, or S$1,550 per person.

Mortgage Repayment

There are a few great things about purchasing our own house.

  • For example, in 25 years, when the mortgage is fully paid off, we would no longer have many accommodation costs (although there’s still things like property tax and maintenance fees). Without the mortgage, we could live a wonderful, simple life for very little.

  • In addition, if we buy a house in Singapore, we will be able to access part of our retirement accounts to pay for the house. This frees up a lot of cash flow for us.

 

Utilities

Utilities – Living with Parents: S$35
Utilities – Living Alone: S$150 – S$200

 

Utilities – Living with Parents: S$35

Right now I pay for only my phone bill, which costs me S$35 per month. However, I’m currently stuck in a 2-year contract. There’s currently another cell service provider offering a no-contract S$5 per month plan, which sounds like the dream. I’m planning on switching over once my existing contract ends.

 

Utilities – Living on my Own: S$150 – S$200

The monthly breakdown of this is as follows:

  • Mobile: S$35 (if I’m unable to snag the S$5 per month deal)
  • Internet: S$25 – S$30
  • Water, Electricity, Gas: $71
  • Others: $20 – S$60

For my mobile phone bill, I’m assuming that I would not be able to snag better deals along the way, and would have to remain at my S$35 per month plan. For my internet bill, I’m assuming prices of anywhere between S$50 to S$60 per household, based on these Singtel prices, which would then be split equally between my girlfriend and I.

As for the water, electricity and gas bills, I expect our bill to come up to S$142 per month, which would also be split equally. This is an estimate based on the Singapore Power statistics, where a 5-room flat would incur S$142 of such utility bills. Although if I were in a bind, I could pay as little as S$25 per month for these water, electricity and gas bills.

I added an additional S$20 to S$60 to budget for miscellaneous items, like waste disposal and conservancy charges. Conservancy charges will depend on whether I’m renting or buying a house.

Necessities

Necessities – Living with Parents: S$50

Necessities – Living Alone: S$50 (No Change)

Necessities includes all items that I have to use on a daily basis, such as moisturizer, sunblock, lip balm, face wash, toothbrushes and toothpaste, so on and so forth. I’ve also included feminine products and supplements (I currently take 5 different supplements) into this category. 

I currently pay for all of my necessities, and I don’t see this category changing once I move out. If need be, I could cut down on my supplements and my usage of necessities, which could decrease spending in this category.

Vitamin Supplements

The 5 different supplements that I take.

Food

Food – Living with Parents: S$100 – S$150
Food – Living Alone: S$200 – S$250

 

Food – Living with Parents: S$100 – S$150

Groceries

At the moment, I don’t spend a lot on groceries as I sometimes have home-cooked meals with my parents; all these meals are paid for by my parents. In addition, if there are leftovers that nobody else wants, I bring these for lunch at work the next day.

My grocery spending is usually only about $50 a month, because:

  • I typically do grocery runs with my brother at least once a week for supper. I spend about $2 to $5 for each supper meal.
  • My girlfriend and I have been trying to get into the habit of batch cooking. Each serving usually comes up to no more than $2 to $3.

Eating Out

On top of groceries, I spend a fair amount of money on eating out. Since I don’t pay a lot for groceries, I often splurge when it comes to eating out. Not exactly a good habit. 

In 2019, I ate out a whopping 176 times. I admit that this seems a little cavalier, especially considering that I’m not making loads of money.

As such, in 2020, I’ve decided to reign this in a bit. It would be great if I spent no more than $50 a month on eating out. Since we’re currently on lockdown, this has been going well.

Cajun on Wheels Restaurant

2 meals at a restaurant, each for only $6. Meal-hacked.

Food – Living Alone: S$200 – S$250

After I move out, I predict a natural increase in my food expenditure, because I’d have to pay for every single meal I eat. That being said, I don’t expect my food expenditure to increase too greatly, for the following reasons:

  • Groceries: I plan to cook and eat in at least 90% of the time. When eating in, I plan to spend at most S$2 to S$3 per meal. As such, grocery costs should be limited to S$150 to S$200 per month, depending on how fancy I’d be making the meals.

 

  • Eating out: In addition, I plan to cut back on eating out, since I now have to pay for all my groceries. I’ll continue to meal-hack my way to $6 to $8 restaurant meals, and I probably won’t eat out more than twice a week. Total expected damage per month? About $50.
Cooking Shakshuka at Home

Cooking a simple Shakshuka at my girlfriend’s.

Transport

Transport – Living with Parents: S$60 – S$90
Transport – Living Alone: S$80 – S$100

 

Transport – Living with Parents: S$60 – S$90

One thing I love about Singapore is the insanely cheap public transportation network. For example, I spend only $2.04 a day getting to work and going back home. That’s only $1.02 each way. (Amazing, right?) That’s why I take only public transportation. No Ubers or cabs for me.

I make a conscious effort to walk to as many places as possible, because I love walking. This keeps my transport costs as low as possible.

I’m that person who would walk anywhere between 30 minutes to an hour to save that $1 transportation cost.

On a good month with lots of walking, I could spend as little as $60 on transport. On a not-so-good month with lots of rain and hence little walking, I could spend as much as $90 on transport.

 

Transport – Living Alone: S$80 – S$100

My transport costs will definitely increase when I move out, simply because I’m going to be staying much further away from my workplace. This increases my per trip costs by about 25% to 50%. But I still plan on continuing my walking habit whenever I can help it.

Medical

Medical – Living with Parents: S$50 – S$100

Medical – Living Alone: S$50 – S$100 (No Change)

I have a chronic eye problem, which, at its most aggressive, would see me getting allergic conjunctivitis every month. I’ve since gotten it under control, with a great deal of tender loving care, cleaning and eye drops. However, all of this costs money, to the tune of $50 to $100 a month, depending on how much eye drops and medication I use.

This does not include the cost of medical appointments whenever my eye problem acts up. A single eye specialist appointment could set me back anywhere between $300 to $500. Thankfully, I haven’t had a problem with my eyes for a few years now, so I limit my specialist appointments to once a year, which are covered by my medical benefits at work.

Travel

Travel – Living with Parents: S$0
Travel – Living Alone: S$50 – S$200

 

Travel – Living with Parents: S$0

The unfortunate fact of the matter is that I have not been travelling on my own for a while. Years ago, I visited Hong Kong with my girlfriend; my parents found out and, to cut a long story short, have forbidden me from ever travelling on my own again.

The benefit of travelling with family is that most of my travel expenses are taken care of. When overseas, I usually spend only on food, entertainment or necessities.

Travel – Living Alone: S$50 – S$200

Since my girlfriend and I love visiting new places and creating new memories together, it goes without saying that my expenditure will increase once I move out.

Luckily for us, Singapore is situated around some of the cheapest travel destinations in the world, such as Malaysia, Thailand and Indonesia. For example, a week-long trip to Johor Bahru in Malaysia would set us back only S$300 to S$400 per person. The breakdown is as follows:

  • Transportation: Two-way travel from Singapore to Johor Bahru (in Malaysia) would cost only about S$5 – S$10.
  • Accommodation: There are plenty of 4 to 5-star hotels in Johor Bahru that would set us back only S$50 per couple a night, or S$25 per person, such as Capri by Fraser and KSL Hotel.
  • Food: Food isn’t expensive in Malaysia, and for just S$5 per meal, there are plenty of good food options.

In contrast, we could be spending a few thousand per trip if we were to fly to more exotic destinations that are further away.

Dollar Beer in Cambodia

Drinking S$2 beer in a fancy bar in Cambodia.

Miscellaneous

Miscellaneous – Living with Parents: S$30 – S$50
Miscellaneous – Living on my Own: S$50 – S$100

 

Miscellaneous – Living with Parents: S$30 – S$50

A bunch of other things, such as gifts, entertainment and unexpected expenses, fall into this category. My month-to-month spend varies depending on birthdays, social events and other unforeseen expenses.

 

Miscellaneous – Living on my Own: S$50 – S$100

There would undoubtedly be more costs in the future. For example, once I quit my job and am no longer covered by insurance, I’d have to purchase my own hospitalisation insurance, which could run up to S$50 per month.

However, I don’t know what the future holds, so I’m just leaving this category open.

 

Living with Parents vs. Living Alone – Conclusion

Financial Benefits of Living with Parents

It’s not difficult to tell that living with parents certainly has its financial merits. My expenses are definitely a lot lower mainly because I don’t have to fork out exorbitant sums of living expenses, especially in the areas of rent, utilities, food and travel.

For these 4 categories alone, cost savings add up to a whopping $565 a month. And these cost savings could be significantly higher, had I not taken the lowest estimate of expenses.

CategoryLiving with ParentsLiving AloneCost Savings (S$)
RentS$400S$700S$300
UtilitiesS$35S$150S$115
FoodS$100S$200S$100
TravelS$0S$50S$50
TotalS$535S$1,100S$565

The average person spends more than I do, and I wouldn’t be surprised if cost savings could come up to at least S$1,000 per month, should they choose to stay with parents.

 

Other Benefits of Living with Parents

On top of financial benefits, there are also numerous other reasons why living with parents can be a blessing.

For one, there would be plenty of time spent with parents, grandparents, siblings and other relatives. As parents and grandparents age every day, this time together is precious. We often have far less time with parents and grandparents once we move out, as work and other family commitments take over.

Other benefits also include having regular social interaction, and time efficiencies when it comes to chores.

 

Recommendation – To Live with Parents or to Live Alone?

Although I often come across articles that disapprove of adult children living with their parents, the Asian in me has always wondered why this is the case. Maybe it’s different in Asia, where parents actually want their children to stay with them.

In fact, in my not-quite-big social circle, only 1 of my friends has moved out to her own place, and this is because she got married and bought a house. The rest of my social circle? Still staying home with their parents. Even those who are 30 and older. And it’s not seen as a strange thing here, in Singapore.

Personally, if my parents didn’t monitor my every movement in and out of the house like a hawk while driving me crazy, I’m not ashamed to say that I would want to live with them until sometime in the future when I choose to start my own family, if they would have me. It’s not just because the financial benefits are great, but also because time with family is precious.

Just something to think about – I truly believe that unless your parents are overbearing, living with parents can be an immensely precious time, and it’s nothing to be ashamed about, no matter your age.

What do you think about living with parents? How different is this situation in the West, compared to in Asian countries?

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How I Managed to Save Money While Making Only $0.10 an Hour https://splurgingonfreedom.com/save-money-making-10-cents-hour/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=save-money-making-10-cents-hour Sun, 21 Oct 2018 09:25:58 +0000 http://splurgingonfreedom.com/?p=1369 The post How I Managed to Save Money While Making Only $0.10 an Hour appeared first on Splurging on Freedom.

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Yup. I once made 10 cents an hour at a full-time corporate job. If you’re interested in the details of this story, you can click on this link right here.

In this post, I’m going to be discussing how I managed to save money while making only $0.10 an hour.

Now, I didn’t save a great deal of money. But what I did manage to do was to stay afloat (even saving a little), despite the poverty-level income I was receiving from my day job.

It’s just a gentle reminder that no matter the circumstance we are in, when there’s a will, there’s a way.

Let’s dig in.

 

The Equation for Huge Savings

To save money, there’s always a simple equation to follow. Viola!

This simple equation has two variables you can control. You can increase your income, and decrease your spending. That guarantees you huge savings.

So, that’s exactly what I did.

Let’s talk about my income first.

 

Boosting My Income

I wasn’t earning just 10 cents an hour. Outside of my corporate job, I was constantly looking for ways to earn more money.

I got paid a measly $20 a month from my corporate job. That’s less than $1 for every day of the month. How is it possible for someone to pay their rent, put food on the table, and pay for the commute to the office every day, on a pay check of less than $1 a day? Heck, that $20 a month couldn’t even cover the cost of my commute!

So, I didn’t have much of a choice. I kept my eyes peeled for any money-making loopholes. I took whatever opportunities came my way, which I could squeeze within the limited time I had outside of my corporate job.

I tutored students at least 3 to 4 times a week, and brought in $20-$25 an hour.

I bought and sold concert tickets, cards and other collectibles online. I usually made anywhere between $10 to $30 per item. My single greatest haul made me $250 in a matter of days.

I did online surveys that brought in a couple of dollars per survey. I even personally attended marketing pitches (disguised as surveys) held by insurance companies, making me $10 an hour.

I auctioned off the clutter that was lying around in my room at home, and made anywhere between $10 to $50 for each item that I sold.

Here’s what my average monthly income looked like.

During my good months, I was able to make a little more than $1,500. During my dry spells, I made only a little more than $1,000. But since I kept my monthly expenses to less than $1,000 a month, I stayed afloat.

My side hustles were just side hustles. They weren’t businesses that were sustainable over long periods of time. They were just quick, easy ways to make a little bit of money. I never made a great deal of money from any of them, but the most important thing is that I didn’t starve to death.

Now, let’s talk about my expenses.

 

Brutally Slashing My Expenses

I always kept my expenses low. Even on my good months. That’s because I never knew how much money I would make the following month. Maybe the stuff I had lying around at home wouldn’t sell. Or maybe there weren’t any good deals online that I could flip for profit. Everything was always uncertain, and I was more than a little paranoid.

So, good month or bad, my expenses were always, always, low. I survived on less than $1,000 a month.

How does one spend less than $1,000 a month? What about rent? Food? Transport? Entertainment? Other bills?

In times like this, you spend only on whatever is absolutely essential. That’s rent, food, transport, phone bills, for example. And nope, a penthouse suite and a $300 Michelin-starred meal aren’t necessities.

I stopped dining in restaurants. I stopped taking Uber or cabs. I stopped going for concerts. I stopped hitting the pubs and going drinking. I stopped shopping. I cancelled my gym membership.

I stopped doing a lot of things, but I understood the sacrifice I had to make. At the same time, I learnt a lot as well. I knew all the best bargains, and relished the thrill of getting one. I walked home instead of transferring between buses just to save a few cents, but that’s exercise, right? I sourced for free entertainment. A walk in the park. Chilling by the beach.

Who knew free entertainment could be as awesome as a $200 night at a club?

While everyone else around me thought I would die from a lack of fun and from slashing my budget to a minimum, I held my ground and came out even stronger.

Right now, even though I’m earning more money, I still keep my expenses around $1,000 a month.

Guess what? Reducing your expenses isn’t as difficult as everyone thinks it is. You just have to give yourself time to get used to it. And you also have to be grateful for the things you have, not the things that you don’t.

 

And That’s How I Saved Money When Making Only $0.10 an Hour.

As you can probably tell, I didn’t save a great deal of money. A couple hundred dollars this month. Next month, half a grand.

Yeah, it’s not much compared to what I’m saving now.

But I made the most of what I had, in the circumstances that I was in. And I’m proud of that.

You’re not happy with your crappy income? Go out there and find money-making opportunities. You don’t have to do something huge like start a business or patent a drug that cures cancer. You just need to find quick, straight-forward means of earning yourself a little bit of cash. It could be as simple as tutoring, flipping goods for profit or doing surveys online.

You’re not satisfied with your savings even though your income is decent? Slash your expenses. Brutally. Find ways to downsize. Do you really need a 3-bedroom apartment? Do you really need that luxury car? Or that new suit every month? Or that new iPhone? Let me answer that for you – You don’t need all that stuff. And after you get the hang of living on a tight budget, you’d probably realise that you’re happier than ever.

Increase your income. Cut your expenses.

Poof. Huge savings.

 

Love,
Liz

 

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The Long-Awaited Corporate Job Paycheck.

Tick, tock, tick, tock.

I stare at my clock, watching the seconds tick by. I feel the impatience building up within me. “Will it just turn 12AM already?!” I scream in my head.

After what seems like a gazillion years later, the clock finally chimes twelve.

I grab my phone in a hurry, almost dropping it in the process. I wait restlessly as my iPhone’s fingerprint scanner takes ages to read my thumbprint.

Authenticated”, I read the single word off the face of my iPhone’s screen, feeling excited.

$2,825 has been credited into your bank account.

My screams of impatience turn into shouts of joy. Knowing that I will have a substantial chunk of change coming in from my various side hustles, which can cover most of my expenses, I quickly transfer $2,700 to my investment account. I add this number to my net worth, now standing at close to six digits.

For a moment there, I feel on top of the world. I survived yet another month at my crappy job!

After a few fleeting moments of celebration, my mind quickly returns to earth. I’m left with $900 for the month.Yet another tight month”, I think to myself.

Satisfied that my pay has finally been credited, I eventually fall asleep. A smile plays on the edges of my lips as I dream about the day I finally get to start my own business. The day I finally get to be my own boss. The day I finally get to command my own hours. The day I finally get to survive on more than just $900 a month.

 

Another Long Day.

The first day of the month is always the worst. It’s another 30 or 31 whole days before I collect my next paycheck.

I reach the office, my spirits much lower than the night before. But like an obedient little corporate drone, I clock in punctually and head to my desk. Barely even 2 minutes in, I feel my mind drifting, my heart dreaming.

The hours drag by, as if intending to make me suffer through every excruciating moment trapped at my desk, staring at dreadful spreadsheets. But I trudge on, albeit rather unwillingly.

When lunch time finally arrives, my colleagues disperse. They’re headed to town to shop and eat delicious meals.

Me? I’ve packed two slices of bread. And jam.

But despite the lack of a thrilling meal, I’m excited to have my lunch hour to myself. Maybe I’ll get some writing done. Maybe I’ll read.

Every minute of my lunch hour is precious to me, and I savour it greedily. In no time, however, my short respite soon evaporates into thin air.

People flood back into the office, ready to resume their mindless and meaningless work. I’m no different. Doesn’t seem like I have a choice.

The next four hours of the day feel like four weeks.

When evening falls, my colleagues bid each other farewell. They then head out to have fancy dinners. Maybe shop a little. Maybe catch a movie. Maybe go drinking.

Me? I just hop on the bus and head home for the day.

I put on my shoes, lay down my yoga mat, and work out for half an hour. My heart beats fast and the endorphins race through my body. I feel great. I feel alive.

Price? Free.

After, I feel ravenous. I grab dinner from budget places – my usual haunts. Despite being cheap, dinner is satisfying. Not everything cheap implies that its of inferior quality. Sometimes, there are hidden gems all around.

Price? About $3 to $4.

I spend the last one to two hours of my day doing things that feed my soul. Sometimes, I read interesting articles. Sometimes, I read a book. Sometimes, I get on the drums. Sometimes, I try to pick up bits of a new language.

Today, I just want to enjoy my favourite YouTubers’ content. They’re currently in Europe! I stare at my computer, enthralled by the scenic places and the quality of their videos. My heart aches with wanderlust. But I smile knowing that one day I’d have the chance to travel around the world too.

What’s the price of everything listed above? Almost absolutely free.

Before I head to bed, I like to count my blessings.

I survived work today!”, I congratulate myself. “And I’m really glad I had the time to do stuff that brings me joy.

“I’m happy with that.”

 

The Rest of the Excruciatingly Long Month.

The working days of the month go by at an agonizing sloth-like speed. Mondays are always the most painful. Fridays are worthy of celebration.

But despite the meaninglessness of my corporate job, I try my darnest to make full use of every hour that I have outside of work. Those hours of joy make me a happy person at the end of every single day despite my strong dislike for my corporate job. Those hours that I spend on things that make my heart sing? They give me the strength and see me through one day to another.

Surely, albeit slowly, the month eventually comes to a close.

12AM.

$2,800 has been credited into your bank account.

I do my thing, clicking away at my iPhone. I tuck more than 75% of my pay away, never to be used for any purpose other than buying my financial freedom. My net worth slowly creeps towards that six-digit prize.

I know my happiness will be fleeting, so I try my best to relish the moment.

That’s a nice number.”, I chuckle, gently reminding myself that the sacrifices of the present are temporary and will be oh-so-worth-it.

“I’m happy with that.”

 

Just a simple story of a person living a simple life.

Hope you enjoyed it,
Liz

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My First Cab Ride after 2 Years of Public Transportation – Was it Worth it? https://splurgingonfreedom.com/first-cab-ride-2-years-public-transportation/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=first-cab-ride-2-years-public-transportation https://splurgingonfreedom.com/first-cab-ride-2-years-public-transportation/#comments Sun, 02 Sep 2018 00:49:15 +0000 http://splurgingonfreedom.com/?p=1174 The post My First Cab Ride after 2 Years of Public Transportation – Was it Worth it? appeared first on Splurging on Freedom.

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A few days ago, I was side hustling till late. I ran into a few problems after. One thing led to another, and I ended up taking a cab back home. I paid $13.40 for the cab fare.

It got me thinking. Is taking a cab worth it? What have I learnt from taking public transport all the time over the last 2 years? (No cabs, no Uber. Just buses and the subway.) Should I keep taking public transportation?

 

Did I Overpay For My Cab Ride?

I currently earn $2,825 a month from my corporate job. I work 9 hours a day. On top of that, I need time to get ready for work. And of course, commute to work. I take about 30 minutes to get ready for work, and another 30-45 minutes to commute to work. After work, that’s another 30-45 minutes back home. Optimistically speaking, that’s about 1.5 hours each day, right there. Factoring in this time taken, I earn a very handsome $12.80 an hour.

After side hustling, I usually take only about 35 minutes to get back home by bus, which costs $1.37. This time though, I spent 5 minutes hailing a cab. After which, the cab ride back home was about 10 minutes. Altogether, 15 minutes. I saved only 20 minutes of my time.

This means that I should have paid only $4.25 ($12.80/3) for the time that I saved.

Instead, I forked over an exorbitant $13.40.

 

The Guilt

A wave of guilt overwhelmed me the moment I saw $13.40 flash across on the cab meter. Even before working out the math above, I already knew, “this isn’t worth it”.

I hopped out of the cab and reluctantly entered the cab fare into my expenses-tracking app. I watched as my cab fare ripped a hole into my transportation budget.

On a good month, I can spend no more than $60 on transportation for the entire month. When I’m feeling like living it up a little, my expenditure would increase to $70-$80. My cab fare was a whopping 15-20% of my entire transportation budget.

That night, I spent feeling guilty. I thought about how I could have fed myself for 2 whole days with that money. Or how I could have taken anywhere between 9-15 bus rides with that money. I looked back on how I was, 4 years ago. I was zipping around everywhere on cabs! It’s no wonder that girl could never save a single cent.

This reminded me of how I used to impulse shop. I didn’t have a lot of money either, but I’d see something and just buy it on impulse. Because it felt so good in the moment. After, I’d regret, but never once reflected on my actions. I kept shopping and then feeling guilty, over and over again. I smiled as I realised how much that girl has changed.

This time, I felt guilty. But this time, I had reflected. Never to make the same mistake again.

 

What 2 Years of Public Transportation Taught Me

We all know how it’s like on a public bus and train, being packed with a million other commuters. It’s the worst.

But with some trial and error, I’ve realised that it’s possible to actually enjoy your commute. I’ve learnt to time my journeys so that I don’t spend too much time waiting at the platform. I’ve learnt which buses will be packed, and which won’t be. I’ve learnt to read books, listen to podcasts, or do something enjoyable during my commute. I’ve learnt that public transportation isn’t so bad after all.

Actually, I can’t quite imagine taking any form of transport but.

“First you hate ’em, then you get used to ’em. Enough time passes, gets so you depend on them.”
– Red, from The Shawshank Redemption

Considering the fact that I save only 20 minutes of time each way if I were to take a cab, and also taking into account the fact that my cab ride would cost $12 more than a bus ride each way, why would I ever take another cab ride again?

Sure, I save 40 minutes each day. But that’s going to cost me $24 a day. That’s $120 for a 5-day work week. And $6,240 for a 52-week year. That’s more than 2 months of my paycheck!

Nah. I think I’ll save that $6,240 and spend that extra 40 minutes each day reading my books. Or listening to music. Or doing whatever it is I enjoy.

No more cabs for me. As far as I can help it.

 

Love,
Liz

 

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7 Simple Hacks for Saving Money on a Friday Night Out https://splurgingonfreedom.com/7-hacks-saving-money-night-out/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=7-hacks-saving-money-night-out Wed, 11 Jul 2018 21:17:02 +0000 http://splurgingonfreedom.com/?p=911 The post 7 Simple Hacks for Saving Money on a Friday Night Out appeared first on Splurging on Freedom.

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Having a 9-to-5 corporate job does come with a few blessings. One of them is the incomparable joy of reaching the end of the work week and having a Friday night out.

As someone who dislikes her corporate job, I totally understand the urge to want to splurge on a Friday night. A small treat for getting through the rough week, right?

Unfortunately, this behaviour isn’t going to get me any closer to quitting my corporate job. It’s not going to do you any favours either.

Luckily, these 7 hacks will.

 

1. Eat in Advance, or Pregame

If you’re having a Friday night out at a luxurious restaurant with a loved one or friends, eating in advance will make sure that you stop salivating at practically everything on the menu.

While you don’t have to pre-eat a full meal, do at least ensure you’re not absolutely ravenous. If you’re a huge food lover like me, that’ll make you over-order, which will end up with you wasting food and costing you precious money.

What I would recommend pre-eating at home is some greens. Healthy, and light. And you save some money by not ordering an appetizer at the restaurant.

If you’re having a Friday night out at a club or bar, and you’re not a lightweight, then you definitely have to drink in advance.

Pre-gaming doesn’t have to be lonely, either. Invite friends over before hitting the clubs, and it’ll be way more fun.

 

2. Research Special Offers

I’m a huge fan of special offers, discounts and loyalty programmes. It’s one of the strategies that I use to save tonnes of money on dining out. Basically, I go wherever the offers are.

Restaurants, clubs and bars will always have dining and happy hour offers. It only takes a simple google search to find out where and when you can take advantage of these offers.

 

3. Plan your Night in Advance

Most people find budgeting a complete turn-off, but you have to set a budget for your Friday night out.

After which, plan your night according to the budget you’ve set for yourself. Know which restaurants or bars you want to go to, and how much they would set you back by.

For restaurants, make reservations where possible. It’s a Friday night, so everyone would be celebrating (who likes their corporate jobs, right?). Failing which, you’d find yourself wandering around, desperately looking for a restaurant that has vacancies. And you’d probably end up in a restaurant that is overpriced and doesn’t deliver good value for money. Been there, done that.

If you’re hitting up bars or clubs, try to avoid cover charges. While most of the latest clubs will have you part with your hard-earned money for simply walking into their premises, there will be other options that allow you to keep your money in your wallet and still have a good time.

Remember, research, research, research.

 

4. Have Post-Alcohol Food All Prepared

There’s nothing like good food to end a night of boozing and partying. Like a late-night pizza that would set you back $20.

Don’t waste your money on greasy, unhealthy fast food, when you can come back to your comfortable apartment to enjoy your pre-prepared food.

And don’t try to cook up a storm only after you’re doing partying. You’d be too tired and out of shape for that, and would probably settle for buying fast food.

Prepare your meals before going out. That way, you know you have delicious food waiting for you when you get home. And that delicious food doesn’t break the bank.

 

5. Reduce Transportation Costs

If possible, assign a designated driver and car-pool. Having a friend who is driving would also mean you’re in safer hands.

Otherwise, split the cost of a cab with a roommate or a friend staying in your area.

On a side note, this is why it’s so important to plan your night in advance. You don’t want to find yourself going out of the way and splurging on your transportation costs, just so you can accommodate your friends.

 

6. Know Your Alcohol Limit

If your alcohol limit is 5 drinks, stick to that. Despite the allure of drinking more, understand that it’s a huge mistake.

People tend to spend more when they’re in the heat of partying. It’s so easy to just whip out some cash or a card and keep drinking.

I’m quite a frugal person, but even I know that I will pay through my nose for drinks if I ever reach that state.

If you go beyond your alcohol limit, you’d only wake up with a flat wallet and your face in your palm.

 

7. Look for Cheap or Free Entertainment

While it’s fun to try new fancy restaurants and the latest bars, alternative sources of entertainment can save your wallet.

Such entertainment includes free admission to museums, enjoying beautiful views while picnicking, or even scoring cheap passes to events and festivals.

You could even consider a walk by the beach or enjoying a sport, like running or cycling.

 

8. Friday Nights In?

If all the above doesn’t save you as much money as you want to save, you can just do what I do. Ditch the Friday nights out, and spend them at home.

It may not be the coolest or the most Instagrammable thing to do, but why can’t a home-cooked meal, a good movie, and snuggling under the warm covers make you just as happy?

Just some food for thought.

 

Love,
Liz

 

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I met one of my best friends for lunch last Thursday, in the middle of the work day. She told me that she wanted to treat herself to a good meal for having survived half a gruelling work day. I (reluctantly) agreed, while putting on my best I’m-so-down-with-this smile.

When we got to one of her favourite cafes, my eyes quickly scoured the menu for the most cost-effective item. There were none. Who was I kidding anyway, fat chance of that ever happening in a pretty fancy cafe.

My heart wrenched as I forked over $12.80 for the cheapest set on the menu. I thought about how I could feed myself 3 good meals for 2 days with that money.

The meal was scrumptious. But as I left the café, I knew there was no chance of me ever returning for a work lunch, if I had a choice.

 

The Massive Lack of Proper Value (for the Price You Pay)

My lunch set was simple. Brown rice, an egg, a few pieces of chicken, a little side of salad, a bowl of clear soup, and a cup of coffee. I could cook that for myself for say, $3.

Then you’ve got to pay for convenience and for sitting in the café. Apparently, that cost me a mark-up of about $10. I’m not going to lie though, the café was beautiful. Clean and minimalistic, just the way I like it.

But here’s the thing about work lunches – you’ve got all of 1 hour. 1 hour to travel to your lunch place, eat, and then travel back.

Within 30 minutes, my best friend and I were done with our lunches, and we raced back to our respective offices.

In 30 minutes, I rushed through lunch, didn’t get a chance to lounge around and enjoy the stunning ambience, and came out $12.80 poorer.

Definitely not good value for what I paid.

It’s different, though, if you get yourself this same lunch set over a Saturday. You enjoy a delicious and leisurely meal over an hour, savouring every bite. As you slowly sip your coffee, you get a little work done on your laptop or scroll through social media on your phone for the next hour. All the while taking in the stunning wood work and carefully placed decorations.

That’s much better value.

 

The Danger of “Value” Add-Ons

In order to rake in higher profits, restaurants would usually offer add-ons that would make your meal seem more value for money. Add on a drink, a salad, and/or a dessert for let’s say, $3.

This would mean that a singular food item that you really wanted to eat, which you could get for $10, would eventually become $13.

Over a month, you’re paying an extra $60 ($3 x 20 work days a month). Just for a coffee or a soft drink, and a few green leaves.

These add-ons are attractive because they seem to make your meal complete.

Since you’re already at the restaurant, and already ordering a food item, why not go all the way and just make it complete? Why not just experience the whole package?

It’s been a gruelling first 4 hours of the work day. You deserve a whole lunch set. And it’s not too expensive. Just add it on!

Sometimes, you do deserve a whole lunch set. But over time, these costs really add up.

 

The Temptation to Treat Yourself

My office is situated near a shopping district, which boasts plenty of food options. And more. Sometimes, I’d watch with intrigue as my colleagues lumber back to office with a bunch of shopping bags. Or a Starbucks in hand. They’d talk about how it’s been a crappy work day, and about how they needed to treat themselves. To make themselves happier by buying a few things.

Make no mistake, you don’t need to be working near a shopping district to be tickled by this temptation. Shops will pop up wherever there are crowds. Casually stroll into one, spot something that catches your eye, and find yourself shelling over hard-earned money for a quick relief in the middle of the work day.

I get it, work days are crappy. We all struggle to get out of bed at 7AM just to make it to the office on time. Then we fight the strong desire to fall asleep the moment our eyes meet boring spreadsheets. An awesome lunch break filled with great food and shopping can never be more welcomed.

But by bringing your lunch to work, you’re less likely to get tempted when catching a whiff of Starbucks. You erase any likelihood of you casually strolling into a random store. Removing that desire to constantly treat yourself in the middle of the work day would mean that your wallet gets fatter. And you’d soon be on your way to quitting your corporate job for good. Isn’t that better?

 

The Presence of Other Associated Costs

I don’t have many food options near my workplace. The easy solution to that is to take a 2-minute bus ride to the shopping district. That’s $1.

I grab a lunch set at an awesome café. $15.

After a quick lunch, I pop into a few shops. A second-hand book catches my eye. Another $5.

Before heading back to my dreaded cubicle, I buy a coffee to cheer myself up. $5.

Another bus ride back. $1.

That’s $27 in total. That’s what I used to do, and thought that it was perfectly normal.

A $1 bus ride may seem innocuous, but over one month, that could amount to $40 ($2 per day x 20 working days). Over the course of a year, that’s $480 ($40 per month x 12 months).

Imagine that. Just riding the bus to grab lunch and back will cost you $480.

 

Bringing Your Lunch to Work is a Great Solution

When you bring your lunch to work, it only costs $2-$4.

When you bring your lunch to work, you don’t get tempted by the “value” of add-ons. You don’t get tempted by a casual stroll into shops or Starbucks.

When you bring your lunch to work, you don’t rack up associated costs.

When you bring your lunch to work, you make great savings.

 

Love,
Liz

 

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I spend less than $200 on food and beverages every month. (Click here for a complete breakdown of all my daily meals.) It’s not that easy, but at the same time, it’s very possible.

Here’s 3 strategies that I always use to eat well when I’m on a low budget.

 

Cook and Eat at Home More Often

If you really want to make a dramatic improvement in your finances, this is the most important thing you must start doing. And don’t worry, you can still dine out. (I’ll get into that a few paragraphs down.)

When you dine out at restaurants, you are paying for not only the food, but the convenience as well. You turn up at the restaurant, you wait a little while, the food gets served, you eat, and then you leave. Oh, and of course, you pay the restaurant for doing all the food preparation. Usually, it’s a hefty premium.

But food preparation isn’t all that difficult. Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to spend 2 hours every day slaving away, just to make sure you’re well fed. With a little education, you can prepare all your meals for the week on just one day. Store it properly in your refrigerator. And when the time comes for you to have your meal, just heat it up. Viola!

 

Always Take Advantage of Food Promotions

If you love to dine out, this is a great tip. Always, always, take advantage of food promotions and loyalty programmes. And free food.

Food promotions can come in the form of couponing. Before I go to a restaurant, I’d usually first ransack my favourite couponing sites. If that doesn’t yield any results, I’d google the name of the restaurant + the word “promotion”, “discount” or “coupon”. If nothing turns up, I’d select another reputable restaurant that has a great coupon. Remember, food establishments are always looking for ways to drive more traffic to themselves. There will never be any lack of coupons on the Internet, so just keep your eyes peeled.

You can also get food promotions from credit card tie-ups. Usually, credit cards have a list of restaurants you can go to, which offer discounts when you pay with that specific credit card. Lately, I’ve been obsessed with Vietnamese Pho noodles, and I know a place that sells a good bowl of noodles for $11. However, when you pay with a Standard Chartered Unlimited credit card, you can get a lunch set for 50% off. That’s a huge bowl of noodles, spring rolls and an iced coffee for just $5.50! That’s amazing value.

Don’t have a particular credit card? Don’t worry, just sign up. Or make a lunch appointment with a friend who does.

Loyalty programmes are great too. You go to a restaurant, spend a certain amount, and rack up points. It’s as simple as that. But here’s the situation for someone like me – I don’t eat out often and I don’t spend much when I do. The one thing I look out for are points that don’t expire, or have an expiry date far from today. Some loyalty programmes have points that expire within weeks / months, and I usually end up allowing my points to expire. What a waste.

Free food is rather uncommon, I think. I have on occasion, though, scored a few free things. You usually have to download an app, do a few things (like post on social media or otherwise), be verified, and then get your coupon for a free meal. I don’t spend my time actively looking for free meals or anything, but it’s possible if you have the time to scour the Internet.

One last tip about dining out – I usually stay far away from fancy dining experiences. And when I say fancy, I’m talking about those 3-hour, $400 meals. Some fancy restaurants do offer discounts, but even with a 50% discount, you’re still paying $200 for a meal. Ouch. In my previous life, I used to eat fancy meals all the time. And they were good. Right now though, I only earn $2,825 a month from my corporate job. Do I want to drop 10% of my pay-check on a fancy meal? No way in hell.

 

Recognise that Satisfaction is Not Proportional to the Price you Pay

People always assume that an expensive item means that it’s better than a cheaper substitute. That’s why we go after expensive bags, expensive cars, expensive apartments, and expensive meals.

But do you truly understand what you’re paying for? I’ll be the first to admit that I’m no food connoisseur, and I definitely don’t appreciate high-end luxury foods the way I should. I probably can’t tell the difference between a $50 lobster flown in from Maine, and a $10 lobster reared locally, and I certainly can’t tell the difference between a $100 glass of wine and a $10 glass of wine. I’ve had my fair share of insanely luxurious meals in my previous life, but I’d never spend my hard-earned money on any of them. They’re just not worth the price you pay.

After I was forced to give up my luxurious lifestyle, I eventually realised that even some $5 meals derived an equal amount of satisfaction. Great food is available at even greater prices, as long as you know where to source them from. Or cook them.

If you’re able to give up your belief that “expensive always means better”, you could really do your savings a huge favour.

 

And that’s the 3 Strategies that I Always Use to Save Money on Food

It’s simple, right?

Just dine out less frequently by cooking great food at home. (Personally, I’m a terrible cook, so I’m trying to work on that.)

When you’re dining out, make sure to make full use of money-saving coupons and loyalty programmes.

Lastly, and arguably the most important point to take away, don’t equate quality with the high prices that you pay. You can get great food at even greater prices, with just a sprinkle of ingenuity.

 

Love,
Liz

 

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I love food. I love how much joy food can bring a person. When you’re busy slogging it out at your 9-to-5 cubicle job, doesn’t a delicious meal in the middle of the day warm the cockles of your heart?

Yet, I spend less than $200 on food (and drinks) each month. It isn’t the easiest thing in the world, but it is possible.

Here’s how. I’ll break it down for you.

 

Breakfast

I don’t like eating the same thing every single day, so I try to mix it up. A bowl of cereal. Or two bananas with some yoghurt. Or two eggs. Or oats.

They’re all simple dishes because I’m usually rushing out of the house to get to work on time. I find myself eating bananas and/or yoghurt most of the time. Easy to prepare, easy to eat. I’m able to finish my breakfast within 10 minutes.

At the same time, this simplicity is good for my wallet. I usually spend only $1 for breakfast. Most of the time, it’s even less.

 

Coffee

I used to be a huge Starbucks fan. I’d have a Starbucks caramel macchiato almost every morning, and sometimes even a matcha latte in the afternoon. But that’s crazy expensive, and would ruin my entire food and beverage budget.

Nowadays, I stick to good old black coffee powder, and I add a little milk and sugar to my liking. I get a pack of 40 coffee sachets for just around $6. With a little milk and sugar, that’s probably only $0.25 a cup of coffee. (I only drink one cup of coffee every morning because I’m prone to insomnia.)

 

Beverages and Alcohol

I cut out all sugared beverages from my life. I don’t drink Coca-Cola, Dr Pepper, root beer. Nothing. Once you get used to drinking just water, it’s actually great. Healthy, and very affordable!

As for alcohol, I don’t drink that either. I haven’t touched a drop of alcohol the whole of this year. I just don’t quite appreciate the taste of it like I should. I do, however, occasionally drink alcohol during social events.

 

Lunch

I pack my own lunch for work most the time. Nothing extravagant either, usually a simple rice dish. Or two slices of bread. (I try not to eat excessively during lunch, because a full stomach coupled with the extremely boring nature of my work tends to have me slumping over my desk in the afternoon.)

1-2 times a week, I’ll have lunch appointments with my friends. I have to dine out during these appointments, but I stick to casual dining establishments (sometimes, fast food establishments). With the help of credit card tie-ups and food vouchers / coupons, I’m able to get the most value for my money, even when dining out.

So that’s $2 a day if I pack my own lunch, and about $5 if I dine out.

 

Snacks / Tea

I do have quite a voracious appetite, and the little bit of lunch that I pack usually leaves me hungry by 4PM. Also, working at a corporate job is pretty damn boring, so snacking in the middle of the day gives me some much-welcomed comfort.

Over the last few months, I’ve been snacking on chocolate covered cereal bars. (How unhealthy, I know, I know.) I’ve found a place that sells 6 Cadbury Brunch Bars for just $1.90. Recently, I also discovered a supermarket that sells Waitrose digestive bars for cheap. I can get 10 of them, for just $1.60! And they’re delicious!

Snack time, therefore, costs just $0.30 if I have a Cadbury bar, and $0.16 if I eat a Waitrose bar. That’s so awesome.

 

Dinner

My workplace is around the shopping district (with really high-end brands). After work, my colleagues are fond of treating themselves to a good meal. But me being anti-social me, I head straight home after work ends. Usually, I’ll have a decent home-cooked meal. That’s only about $3 for my entire dinner.

 

A Summary

On my more frugal weeks, I’ll spend only $40. On my more so-called “extravagant” weeks, I’ll spend closer to $50. And that’s how I usually keep my food and beverage expenditure below $200 every month.

All you have to do is to cook your meals at home more often. Brew your own coffee at home and take it to work in a thermos flask. Be resourceful when dining out to score great discounts. Stay home Friday nights, or at least do something more economically efficient, instead of going out to the most popular clubs or bars.

And stop patronising Starbucks so frequently! (I love you Starbucks, but not right now because I simply can’t afford you.)

These strategies work wonders for your wallet.

 

Closing Thoughts

One question I always force myself to think about is whether I want to keep living like this. I usually spend less than $1,000 a month, with only around $200 of that going to food and drink expenses.

The painful truth is, more often than not, I do wish that I could spend more on food. I really love eating, and $200 a month won’t get you all that much. Increasing my budget for food to $500 or even $1,000 a month would provide me with many more options. I could buy more expensive groceries. I could eat at a greater variety of restaurants. Yum.

But doing that would mean slogging away at a 9-to-5 cubicle job for a longer period of time, just so I can eat more expensive foods and down more shots at bars. For me, that isn’t worth it. I may love food, but I treasure my freedom more. And if sticking to a consistently bare-bones budget every month means I get to quit my corporate job sooner, then I’d definitely do it.

No question about it.

Spending less than $200 on food and beverage every month is not that easy, but it’s possible. Especially when you have a corporate job to escape from.

 

Love,
Liz

 

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It’s been an… Interesting few years.

In a nutshell – I lived a lavish lifestyle growing up because of my wealthy parents. Then I came out, and got rejected by them. After which, I went through a lot of emotional torment, including losing my inheritance and purpose in life. I ended up with a whole host of mental illnesses and was on a downwards spiral to what I thought would eventually be me ending my own life.

It was an insanely tough time for me to get through.

But somehow, there was always a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. When my world crumbled to pieces, that light was faint, but it was still there. Each day I contemplated taking my own life, that light motivated me to hang in there. To take things one step at a time. To start afresh.

Eventually, I built myself back up and continued trudging toward that glimmer of light. In fact, I’m still in the process of making that walk.

But some days, I’d stop and look back along that dark tunnel, thinking about everything that I had gone through. Thinking about how far I’d come. I’d smile and think, maybe, all that struggle was for something after all.

Maybe, it was to teach me a lesson about frugality that I so desperately needed to learn.

 

Frugality isn’t Hard

I used to be one spoilt and self-entitled prick of a rich kid. I would blow through thousands of dollars every month on worthless shit. I bought clothes that are still hanging in my closet, untouched. I spent on shoes that I never wore and are now collecting dust. I signed up for classes in the spur of the moment but eventually never went for. I purchased stupid knickknacks that I eventually threw away, because I couldn’t figure out for the life of me why I would buy that in the first place.

Sometimes, I would reflect and regret some of the purchases I had made. But then I would go out, do it all over again, and repeat this vicious cycle.

As my relationship with my parents worsened over time after I came out to them, I knew it was impossible to live like I had before. The money habits that I had in my previous (luxurious) life would drive me into massive debt. For my own survival, I had to change my lifestyle drastically overnight.

At first, it was a real culture shock. Budgeting? Saving? Recording expenses? (Insanity, you mean?) They all seemed like foreign concepts to me. But for me, it was really do, or die.

I struggled first with sticking to a budget. I would attempt to save 30% of whatever income I had before spending the rest. But month after month, I would be puzzled at why I just couldn’t save. So I started recording down my expenses. At the end of each month, I would see what went wrong (and regret). And learn from my mistakes, of course.

When I finally got the hang of budgeting and saving, I gradually increased my savings rates. First, from 30% to 40%. Then 50%. And then 60%. Up and up it went.

And the interesting thing?

The easier and easier being frugal became.

It took me months of floundering around to realise that I am capable of saving and building my own wealth.

By the time my relationship with my parents hit rock bottom, I was saving almost everything I was making.

Right now, I save more than 70% of my monthly income. Every month. Sometimes, I even save more than 80%. My current income’s far from great, but I keep my spending as low as possible to achieve a high savings rate.

Not too shabby for a spoilt and self-entitled prick.

 

Frugality Maximises Happiness

When I allowed myself to spend 100% of my income, I usually never thought twice before buying something or spending on something.

Paid for classes I never attended? It’s alright, I’ve still got lots of money left. Spent on something I never used? That’s okay, there’s more where that came from. Bought something but then got bored of it after a short while? No big deal, I’ve still got some serious cash to burn through.

Stuff I paid for but didn’t enjoy were always just thrown in a corner, because I constantly told myself “I still have money to spend”.

Unfortunately, that’s not how it works when you’re on a tight budget.

Every dollar wasted on useless stuff is a dollar that could be used to pay for necessities, such as housing, food, and transport.

I stopped telling myself that I still had money, that I could afford to blow through serious cash. Instead, I asked myself a variety of questions. Do I actually need this shit? Would I still be using this in months or years to come? Do I really need this stuff to be happy?

If my answer was yes to all the above questions, I would then wait a couple days or maybe even weeks before buying it. If I kept thinking about it every single day for weeks, then I would eventually get it. If not, then it’ll just be a forgotten memory.

Once I got myself to ponder deeply about whether stuff I wanted to buy would make me happy, I became more aware about what contributed to my happiness and what didn’t. I now know that shopping for clothes and shoes doesn’t increase my happiness. (Well, maybe for the occasional pair of sneakers.) Going out on the town and spending on booze also doesn’t do anything for my happiness levels.

So I stay away from all of that.

You know what? Without all that shopping and boozing, I’m still as happy, if not more.

And when I do spend on myself, it’s going to be on amazing stuff. Like paying for a blog theme, or buying a new musical instrument to learn, or purchasing language books to study.

And that makes me so happy.

 

Frugality Buys Decades of your Life

I stumbled onto a couple of financial freedom and early retirement blogs one fateful day. At first, I was skeptical, wondering what sorcery this was. But as a little more time passed, and the more I allowed myself to be exposed to such unconventional thinking, the more convinced I was that I could make it work too.

One day, that light bulb in my head shone brighter than it ever did before. I had my Eureka moment – so that’s the true value of money! Money’s true value is its ground-breaking ability to buy financial freedom, rather than just being a tool for accumulating more material possessions. People save aggressively and make their money work for them, so they needn’t rely on anyone else to give them a paycheck. So they needn’t spend their entire lives in the cubicle, miserable and dreading every single work day. So that they can escape the cubicle life decades ahead of their peers.

So that they have the choice to go out into this great big world and do what truly matters.

It’s a simple, yet beautifully astounding, truth. It was the truth that saved my life. It was the truth that made me realise that maybe, life was worth living after all.

And I’ve been truly and completely fascinated by the concept ever since.

 

So, Be Frugal

Right now, I do whatever I can to save as much as possible, usually living on less than a thousand dollars a month, and spending only on necessities (alright, alright, I’ll admit, as well as the occasional shopping item).

Determined to make sure I don’t have to stick around in a cubicle for too long, I dug down, cut out the fat in my life, and made frugality my lifestyle. It was uncomfortable at first, but I eventually got the hang of it. And once I did, I started loving it. I came to learn that being frugal wasn’t some death sentence; being frugal actually allowed me to be happier and more self-aware.

So, be frugal. It isn’t difficult once you get used to it, and you’re in complete control to ensure that every dollar you spend maximises your happiness. And the best part? You get to escape that damned cubicle as soon as humanly possible.

So, be frugal.

I’ll see you on the other side.

 

Love,
Liz

 

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